Ok so I have not dated in an entire year and life was just going good when out of nowhere comes this girl from work. I work in retail and when I meet this girl we instantly hit it off. I think she is cute but am terrible around girls but lucky she invites herself to lunch with me. After doing this fairly often we both really like each other. So since she is 18 she wants me to meet her parents but they are very busy so we agree that the best way I can meet them is at her church on Wednesday night. I go Wednesday night and I like the family and the atmosphere and whatever so I ask if I could tag along. I have been doing this for abour 1 and 1/2 months and was having a great time. We hung out but weren't dating because she wasn't ready after a 1.5 year relationship and I was cool with that because I know its hard to get over those things. Things are going good and I really want to ask her out but she still isn't ready. V-day rolls around the corner and after 4 months of not dating I figure I try agian. I come up with this really cool way to ask her out on Valentines and she says yes and we say we will get dinner the following Tuesday. Tuesday rolls around and I don't tell her what were doing but I take her ice skating then to a nice dinner at Magginos. The date was good but I wasn't feeling anything remotely close attraction wise as when we had hung out before. Wednesday I wake up to find I don't have a text from her which is odd. I text her good morning. No reply. Four hours later I send another text. No reply. Its now 4pm in the afternoon after she gets off school and I ask her out school was. She says it was too busy to text me. (I get a little pissed.) After a few mins mid conversation she stops texting me agian. The day goes on, no text. Its like 6 and I am I meet her at Church at 7 since its a Wednesday. I am kinda pissed off so I decide I won't put myself in a bad situation and go. I text her sister because she isn't replying to me and I figure her phone is broke and tell her I can't come tonight. She tells me its ok because this girl Rachael wasn't coming anyways. Now I know Rachael had plans for a very long time that she was to assist somehow in the state wrestling tournament and that it was the later end of the week but she did not tell me she was NOT going to be a church. Had I not found that out myself I would of gone expecting to see her there. Well I am pissed and a little upset so I send her a nice message just letting her know I felt kinda put down because she didn't text me. She responds saying that she cares about me but is pissed, etc.. Then she says she won't be able to talk all weekend. Fast forward to Monday (today) and I finally text her saying that we needed to talk. After beating around the bush a bit I get to the point and she says she discovered that she wasn't ready to date still. I probe further and she says that Tuesday she wasn't feeling anything more than us being friends. As all this is kind of schocking and it pissed me off I bit I didn't know what to say. Here I was standing up for her not communicating like a responsible adult and now she is dumping me? I knew Tuesday wasn't the best date but it wasn't bad. I wasn't putting the moves on her because I wasn't sure she was ready yet and now I get dumped because of it. I seriously need some help, I mean I haven't even had an interest in dating for a year and this shit goes down and I just don't know what to say. She was a really cool girl that liked EVERYTHING I did besides this stupid situation. I told her I wasn't feeling it too and that we should remain friends. I just plan on being myself and hope she sees that I am a really fun person. If not I think she would still be a cool friends. Did I do something wrong? Am I in the wrong? I need some advice guys!