This was like the first time that I tried this dating thing. I know, I'm a nerd . So yeah, this last friday 13th, I arrive home drunk, and there is this girl on MSN that I never actually met but we've been talking for some time now. She's 19 years old, sort of a nerd too, very involved into politics also. SO I just tell her like that "I wanna go see a movie, come with me tomorrow". To my surprise, she agrees and the next morning she logs onto MSN to inquire about this meeting. I'm of course stressed like hell but I do get a plan together and meet her there. Now we go see a movie, everything is pretty awkward, we don't talk much and we go back home. The moment I get home, she sends me a message on MSN saying "Thanks for the movie. It was very nice meeting you. I'm sorry for the awkwardness... it's just my normal antisocial self Anyway, a movie theater is not the best place to know more of a person; might I suggest a coffee next time? Take care! C." The following day, I sent her an e-mail saying: "Your welcome C. It was also nice meeting you. I admit that there was a bit of awkwardness but the good kind of awkwardness. Don't worry about it, just be yourself. I like your suggestion of coffee. Do you have a favourite place around here? I only know the downtown area." So, 4 days later, I meet her again, that is last wednesday afternoon at 1. We go to a coffee place and talk for 4 hours. Mostly about politics since she is so interested in politics, as well as school, about ourselves etc. During the whole time, I was too relaxed and I felt that we were going into best friends territory. Then again, we had eye contact the whole time, she sipped her coffee and stayed for a long time, she claims to be awkward and antisocial maybe not totally sure of herself. There were times when there were pauses in our conversation and she didn't seem to appreciate those pauses and would find something else to talk about. At some point, I just spilt all that was left of my coffee onto the table and a bit onto myself. I just laughed, acted cool and pretended as if nothing happened, hehe. I haven't seen her since then, either in person or online although that wouldn't be abnormal since even between Saturday and Wednesday she was not online much and rarely is online anyways. So what should I do and if I ask her out again, what should I do with her? Any other suggestions?