This girl and I have been in a long distance (~300mi) relationship for the last 15 months. The last 2 of those have been slow, and generally all around bad months. Because of this we had arranged to basically break up on Sunday (today). I'm fine with all of this. The relationship was not going anywhere. What I did: To put it shortly, I had sex with my ex on Friday night. On Saturday morning I called my girlfriend and told her what had happened. This is my problem: For obvious reasons the girl Ive been with for the last 15 months will barely talk to me. This is fine with me too. Had everything went perfect and the breakup occured on Sunday I would have attempted to be friends - it would probably worked. The friendship alternative is probably not an alternative now, which is okay by me aswell. The only thing that really gets to me is that she was a good person and I hurt her a lot. I want her to feel better, but I feel so shitty myself. I need some of OT's help in telling me if what I did was horrible and if you think there is any hope this girl will feel better.