Oprah had an interesting show about closet cases that are married but pursue dick on the side (d/l men I suppose). According to her statistics, there are "millions and millions" of dick-seeking married men out there. She featured a flamer that specializes in married men who went on line (typed in "gay married men" or some such thing) and there were hundreds of such themed sites. He placed a want ad for demo purposes and he got propositioned from married men right away. ( I couldn't help but think of my co-worker: he's a walking stereotype for the gay man, more so than I if that's possible , but he's married.) Is it just me that thinks there are a lot more gays out there than just 10% of the population?