I've been with my girl for close to 6 months now. It's been a pretty solid relationship. I'm deploying to Iraq this summer and I don't know what to do. She's known about my upcoming deployment since we got together and vows to support me while I'm gone. The thing is, a year is a long time, and if I were in her shoes would I stay faithful? Probably not. How can I expect her to? I feel like I have one of two options: A. Accept her support, but stay emotionally detached until I can pick things up when I get back. B. Fuck it, I may die over there. I'll throw my cards on her table and ask her to Marry. She needs the incentive to stay in it.