Defining Slut

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  1. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    How many guys does a girl have to sleep with to be qualified as a slut?







    I can't believe I'm actually posting this here.
     
  2. RedVsBlue

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    Its not about a number, its about how she presents herself, and how she talks/acts about sexual things.
     
  3. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    so if she wears her sexuality on her sleeve, she's a slut?
     
  4. RockChick

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    evrybody has different values, morals etc... you won't get a real answer!

    if you think a girl that has slept with 30men in 8 years is a slut, fine.
    if you think a girl that wears mini skirts and tops that show her belly is a slut, that's fine too.
     
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    yah, its a really subjective term. depends on what you are used to. I can tell you that my definition has changed DRAMATICALLY from high school, to dorm life in college, to west campus :o
     
  6. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    So what is your attitude now?
     
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    its not really a number. There is a point where you have to ask yourself what the fuck is the girl looking for? sluts use sex for all the wrong reasons. self esteem, attention, self destruction...

    they make choices that really cant be attributed to even the healthiest sexual appetite.

    Im probably the most lax guy i know on the slut thing though. I just cant see how you are going to look down on a girl for getting down the first night. sometimes it just feels right, and sometimes the guys saying slut are the ones fucking em :dunno:
     
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    there is nothing wrong with that, but as with anything, you have to have a class. i mean you can express yourself, but there is definitely a wrong way to do it.
     
  9. lauren

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    depends on who to. some close friends is fine, but if you greet yourself to strangers as 'the girls whos fucking _____" thats a bit much (yeah, RL example right there folks)
     
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    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    How can you be at UF in Pensacola?
     
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    i think its how she presents herself. i mean honestly it shouldn't matter but if i find out a girl has slept with a lot of guys i tend to stay away from them.

    :dunno: just me i guess.
     
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    'hometown' is pensacola

    im at uf at school. but i go home on a pretty regular basis to work

    (and, theres a satalite uf campus in pcola, that i attened for a year. but thats not why i put it like that. its cause of the job, split time dealy)
     
  13. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Dang that is a long boring drive.
     
  14. Lick Harrass

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    slut? thats so easy...my ex-girlfriend, who I'm ashamed to have ever called my ex. suddenly shes dating a 30 year old jerk off who has no job, and shes in love:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :mamoru: :mamoru: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:


    However, I feel so bad for her mother, shes a nice person who had a severely defective child.
     
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    girl that sleeps with 40 guys, usually when drunk, doesn't care about protection, and brags about it = slut

    woman that sleeps with 40 guys because she is confident in her sexuality and is careful with protection = not a slut
     
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    i agree. and a lot of the times it's a guy calling a girl a slut because he had sex with her, she broke it off and now she's sleeping with some one else. i also believe it is also in the way a girl dresses. wearing clothes that let all your assets hang out for the world to see is slutty and trashy to me. there is a way to be sexy without letting everything show. leave a little something for the mind to think about.
     
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    its not a number its on a case to case basis and situation
     

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