TAT Dealing with crazy parents

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  1. CustomTrendzInc

    CustomTrendzInc New Member

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    Alright, i am 18 and currently living with my parents as i have no job or other place to go. Ive recently started growing my hair out and ive been getting alot of crap about it from my parents. I want to get gauges or atleast just pierce my left ear(professionally of course) and they wont let me. They go on about how im gay because im growing my hair out, and how i will be "gayer" if i get piercings :ugh: Any clues on how to allow them to get me piercings?

    A little background on my parents:
    Born in a Azerbaijan(we moved here when i was 9)
    Russian
    Hate tattoos, piercings, and anything of that nature
    even bitch about me getting bruises from the gf(playfull :naughty: bruises)
     
  2. july23rd1989

    july23rd1989 Blood for Lube

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    Move the fuckk out of your parents basement and get a job, or live by their rules
     
  3. CustomTrendzInc

    CustomTrendzInc New Member

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    well i dont have a job BECAUSE of them. They want me to go to school and not try to juggle a job and school.
     
  4. Buttons

    Buttons OT Supporter

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    Their house, their rules. :dunno:
     
  5. CustomTrendzInc

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    alright i can understand that they might not want me getting gauges, but not even a tiny lobe piercing...
     
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    PanasonicYouth New Member

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    I could echo Buttons, but I'll try and put it differently. Their rules in their house.
     
  7. Pepsi1975

    Pepsi1975 Mod of the Year

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    make a choice continue living there and going to school, graduate and get a job, move out and then get what you want down the road

    or move out, get a job, and get the shit you want now
     
  8. Kasumi Chan

    Kasumi Chan Happy, joyous and free. But fuck off.

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    OMG, their Russian?! You're fucked.

    When I was a teenager, I was a total nut as most teenagers are. One of my best friends was this Russian chick who had very strict Russian parents. They thought I was such a bad influence they MOVED her to Texas from PA. Whole family got up and moved.
     
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    dguy She smells like angels ought to smell.

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    Everything you do is subsidized by them at this point. You have no say in the matter so buck up and stop being a baby, get a job, and move the fuck out.
     
  10. Think about why, maybe culturally, they don't want you to have tattoos and piercings. Think about where they came from. It doesn't mean they have the right assumptions about them but it might give you some insight as to why they are against them.

    Also you're 18 living with them so :ugh:
     
  11. CustomTrendzInc

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    well living with them is more of a forced situation. I want to move to get a job and move out but they are going on about how having boys is a waste because once they move out you dont have a child.
     
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    nobody can really help you with your parents dude.
     
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    :rofl: wow
     
  14. cattywh0mpus

    cattywh0mpus Retarded Fag Crew

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    you don't get gauges.
     
  15. CustomTrendzInc

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    i want to gauge my ears. You know what i meant lol
     
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    cattywh0mpus Retarded Fag Crew

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    you want to stretch your lobes.
     
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    you 'can' get guages by doing that pierce/wholesaw thing...
     
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    You live under their roof, you live under their rules. Simple as that. In my opinion it would be very disrespectful to get your ears pierced when they're basically keeping you alive for free. As I'm a student, my parents still help me out a bit every month, and after I got a few tattoos my dad told me to stop. So I did. I won't be getting any more until I'm completely 100% on my own.
     
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    either follow by they're rules, or get a job and gtfo or just gt something where they wont see it if you want a peircing or tat
     
  20. XxvODvxX

    XxvODvxX New Member

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    Suck it up and just continue with school and their rules... I'm on my own and trying to work a full time job and school at the same time and it aint easy... you can always get what you want later in life... But trying to make up for lost time like i am is not fun...
     
  21. Two toys

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    uhh 18 and living with them is a problem to you? the kid could still be in high school at 18, if he was 21 then maybe you could :hsugh:

    i went ahead and got pierced and scarred and whatevered even though my parents voiced their dissaproval. i didn't flaunt it around them or rub it in their faces, i considered their feelings and was discreet about it. but it is my body and I'll do whatever the fuck I want to it. my case to them was atleast i'm not doing drugs or getting in trouble with the law, if me getting piercings were the most they had to worry about then they were pretty fucking lucky, and they seemed to agree.
     

  22. It's not a problem at all my point is he is living with them, is young, and still supported by them. Duh his parents aren't going to let him do that stuff.
     
  23. lionsgraphics

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    wait faggot, you're from Baku?
     
  24. sorryforya

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    No one can help you with your parents, so you have to make your own decision. I basically was the same as Two toys. I did what I wanted to do because it was my own body. I got my tattoos after I moved out but I still hide it from my parents. As mentioned above, just don't flaunt it in front of them.
     
  25. CustomTrendzInc

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    yes im from baku, thanks for calling me a faggot.

    and the whole parents thing is just getting out of control. My mom is flipping out because i want to move out and live with roomies once i get a job. She constantly talks how im not a good son because i hang out with my girlfriend and friends and how i dont spend time with them. I dont spend time with them because my dad always calls me a idiot, retard and dumbass no matter what i do.

    Cant wait to get the fuck out of their house.
     

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