SRS Dealing with angry thoughts of my XGF.....

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  1. Sharkticon

    Sharkticon The safest place in combat is on an AEGIS Class Gu

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    Why? Because I recently found out that she had been screwing friends of mine and also that she was turning tricks as a high dollar escort while we were together.

    I have since moved on with my life and have a wonderful wife and daughter now but every so often I get the urge to find her and :rl: . Am I wrong to want her to have a piece of my mind and possibly my size 10.5 jungle boot?
     
  2. Bleed

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    Let it go. She's owning herself in life right now. She's a hooker! Why would you even care anyway?
     
  3. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    It's normal to have these emotions, but why let her drag you back into HER mess? Be stronger than that.
     
  4. teo

    teo . => ? => !

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    Eh?
    the past is past...
    you're sinking to her level if you let her control your emotions.

    you're still mad about the betrayal (and probably about exposure to disease) but you've done the right thing by not staying with her.
     
  5. Bluntman

    Bluntman OT Supporter

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    Look at it this way: You have a wife and family, and she is probobly still sleeping around. Soon shes going to want to get married, but all the "good" guys that she cheated on before are all taken. So theres no need for you to do anything, shes doing it to herself. Just look at what a better life you must have than her.
     
  6. johan

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    I can understand your lingering feelings of betrayal and rage.

    Even though all the above responders are right -- she's dug her own hole so deep, she'll never have the treasures you have (house, home, family, love) -- this does little to lessen the feeling of betrayal, and at least wanting to confront and demand that she answer for her wrongdoing.

    It's clear you need to work through these issues -- and lucky for you, you don't actually need to confront this whore to do that.

    (1) If you feel comfortable you could discuss with your wife, assuming she's understanding and self-aware enough to help rather than bring her own issues into the mix (no disrespect, but it may hit too close to home for her to help)

    (2) If you're part of a church group and you trust the minister there, you could talk to him about it.

    (3) You could also try a close and self-aware friend who's supportive and has some insight into personal issues.

    (4) You could go to counselling.

    (5) And lastly, there's Asylum.
    good luck
     
  7. Sharkticon

    Sharkticon The safest place in combat is on an AEGIS Class Gu

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    Well, the only reason I DID mention it was due to the fact I ran into her over the weekend. I didn't say anything. I looked at her, balled my fists, bit my bottom lip, counted to 10 and then shook my head at her and walked away. My wife is well aware of the issues I've had with her and has been helpful in talking about it. My wife said she wanted to be with me next time so she could throw the hooker into traffic. I also found out that NONE of the other guys she was messing with knew about her hookerness or the fact that she was seeing the other guys. So, each one of them called her out on it too. I did receive a nasty gram email from her asking why I told them. I just deleted it.
     
  8. squeezemeNOW

    squeezemeNOW New Member

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    Ok u have a wife and daughter - who cares if she was sleeping with everyone while she was with you...it might hurt your wife to find out that you are even thinking of this and u shouldn't b....u obviously have somebody good in your life so forget about the skank from the past
     
  9. 1337

    1337 Forget it, Jake. It's Chinatown.

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    :rofl: you owned her, shes a hooker and you have a wife, good job on your part :bigok:
     

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