On the advice of several Asylum OTers, I have begun dating again. So, okay I sign up on an on-line dating site. What a freak show. I must be a nutbar magnet or something. Most of the men my age seem to be either a) freaks; b) come with a lot of baggage; c) have issues <insert weird issues>; d) are divorced and have kidlets and e) are looking for a romp in the hay. Jaysus Murphy. Went for coffee & dessert with a media lawyer-he talked law, I talked engineering. He said I was "too focused". WTF? Went for a drink with a Roofer, he was funny as hell, and dumb as a post. BORING. Went to dinner with a "supposed" self-employed computer somethingorother-he was just a zero, broke and lied his face off. LIAR. Had a romp with a married man <gasp>, he was cute (gorgeous actually) and stated it was his first time running around, he lied, I see him trolling on-line all of the time. PLAYER. Had coffee with a guy who sent me his photo. Ah, he shows up, smiles-no teeth and he picked his nose-GROSS. Had lunch with this guy and all he did was talk about his Mother (not good). NUTBAR. Arranged to meet a guy at the library (safe, public place)...he wanted to screw in the men's room...he said he had to hurry b/c he was picking up his kids (Holy Crass Batman). I declined. My question is this: Where can I meet an intelligent, fairly attractive man, who works, has all his own teeth, is my age, not married, a gentleman, isn't a freak or a nut bar, doesn't have issues with his Mother, does not lie, not a player, and is not out just for a romp? I don't go to bars, so that is out of the question.