Hey All. I've dated 7 girls in the past, 5 in college, and two afterwards. All of them put out within the first two dates, some on the first. Anyway, i just met a cute redhead who's a bit reserved and conservative. She is a nice girl, and we are very compatible. I'm honestly thinking of trying to go the distance with her, she is the first girl i've ever thought of trying to do so with. Anyway, we've known each other for like 1.1 weeks, and have gone on 3 marathon dates, and have made out on the last two. I made the mistake of letting her know I was willing to go as slow as she was willing. She's only had 1 serious boyfriend before, but flings are unknown. How long do i have to hold out? 50% of my last relationship was long distance, so i'm now the zen master of holding out. My lady friends tell me nice girls either put out on the first date, or they wait a reaaaaaaaaaaally long time to be sure. The whole "look before you jump thing". I guess I wouldn't really know, as i've only dated nice girls in college (different rules apply) or crazy girls after. The girl i'm interested in now is still in college, i've been out for a few years. I'm just glad i'm not friend-zoned, as I've made it clear my intentions from the first second i met her. I asked her out literally 5 minutes after meeting her. I've also demonstrated lots of social proof, as I have a decent number of cool friends, some of whom are attractive females. Just curious what a "reasonable" time would be before I bring it up.