Dating new girl for about a month now. What to do for our first new years?

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  1. Ricky

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    What are you guys doing for your new years?

    Im not really big into the whole club/party scene so thats kind of our of the question. Do you think it would make for an awkward situation to be around her family this early in a relationship ?

    :o

    I suck at this shit
     
  2. SPACECATAZ

    SPACECATAZ New Member

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    I'd chill at home and watch the ball drop.
     
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    My first new years with my ex-wife (when we first started dating--at New Years we'd been dating 3 months), we stayed at home and had sex while my parents were at church for a watch night service.

    You should do that.
     
  4. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    fuck.


    New Years is a fake holiday anyways. And why would you go to her parent's house ?
     
  5. Yail Bloor

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    you sure she doesn't want to go out partying with her friends?
     
  6. Falconer

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    I went to a club for NYE once and it was LAME (by "lame" I mean way too crowded and contrived).

    Every New Years since I either stay in and drink champy with my gf, go to my gf's place and drink champy, or go to a hotel with my gf and drink champy. Oh, one year my gf at the time was in India with her family over New Years so I went to a house party with a bunch of my friends. That was fun, too.

    Cliffs:
    - Stay in and cook dinner together. Then drink champagne and then have sex. Watch the count down on tv and make fun of all the lame bands they are showing. This is 100x cooler than going out ever will be, especially if you're still in the honeymoon phase, which you are, because you said it's been one month.
     
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    take her to the waterfront and propose
     
  8. giz

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    my gf met my parents about a month in.... then two weeks later I stayed at her parent's home for the weekend. it wasn't awkward at all in our case, but everybody will be different. if you think you aren't ready at all, I would suggest against it.
     
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    get hammered and have drunk sex.
     
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    i asked this new girl i've been on a few dates with to go to my friends with me on new years and she said she's probably going to her friends. i was kinda bummed at first but then i was like "well, fuck... if she invited me to go with her to her friends i wouldnt go either. i wanna be with my friends, it's gunna be a blast"
     
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    yeah im sure. She never goes partying
     
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  13. Falconer

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    sounds like you guys arent really that into each other :dunno:
     
  14. Buck something?

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    im in this sort of te same situation. girl i like wants to date, but on NYE i want to see people i havent had a lot of time to hang out with since i graduated highschool (different colleges) and she will probably want to hang out with her friends. i dont give a fuck about her friends. :dunno:
     
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    If my girlfriend said she wanted to be with her friends on NYE I would either tell her to invite them to the party I was going to or tell her to have fun with them. I would not want to be anywhere except with my friends on NYE. Fortunately she gets along with my friends incredibly well and has started developing her own friendship with two of the girls that party with us. NYE is one of the few times a year where we have a really fun party.
     
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    To the TS.. it really depends on your situation. My girlfriend's family really likes me and she's also well liked by my family.. I'd only met her sister once and she invited us to stay at her house for a weekend.. We've been dating 3 months and her family has had very open arms towards me since before we were even officially dating.

    How well do you know her parents? How well does she know yours?
     
  17. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    My GF and I are going to a small party together. The main thing is that we are spending NYE together.
     
  18. Yail Bloor

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    take her somewhere cool for new year's and have a drink

    for example a really nice hotel that has an upscale bar

    you don't have to "party" to have a good time dressing up and going out
     
  19. Alaya

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    :werd:
     
  20. Clikewhoa

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    dress up ....go out to a local bar...get drinks and take her back to your house and WAX!!!
     
  21. lauren

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    i just realized this is my first new years away from my family. usually we are traveling, and do whatever is the local custom, or we drink whiskey slushes and play scrabble till midnight at someone's home.

    i wouldn't know what to do with an so. :hsd:
     
  22. bearsdidit

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    my SO is in vietnam with her roommate for nye... bummer dot com.
     

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