SRS Dating Issues

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  1. bearsdidit

    bearsdidit OT Supporter

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    I've been single for 4 or 5 months now... Its really odd, the last two girls I've met have been awesome, super cute, funny great personality etc etc. The kicker is both have boy friends... I really hope this isn't going to be an ongoing trend. Both have flirted with me heavily but as soon as I found out I backed off.. Any ideas?
     
  2. I've been single for 8 months going on 9, I seem to attract married women a lot, and younger women, but unlike you, I don't seem to care about a relationship. I'm more concerned about me. Just concern yourself with things that make you happy and you will find what you want in another person, that shares at least one similar interest with you.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Guess who's there to scoop them up when they break up.....you!
     
  4. Yail Bloor

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    The less available a woman is, the more interest she will show.

    The more available a woman is, the less interest she will show.

    The trick is to develop enough confidence that you can interact with the interested, available women (who won't initially show interest) without the need for the reassurance that you get from the unavailable women.

    (Available) Women show interest in very subtle ways. Learn to read the signs, then have a calm, fun conversation with her. After a couple of minutes of banter, request her phone number.

    Then plan the date and call and invite her on the date.

    It really is this simple. If you perform these steps you will be dating available women in the near future.
     
  5. runawaycamel

    runawaycamel New Member

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    I'm a woman, and that is definitly not completely true.
     
  6. Yail Bloor

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    I'm generalizing.

    I do it often.

    There are exceptions, naturally.

    And in my experience, women love to disagree with me :)
     
  7. ledzep73

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    Hey Yail, how sucsessfull has your love life and sex life been? You give out a lot of advice that I don't always agree with and Im just wondering.
     
  8. Yail Bloor

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    I have a lot of experience with unsuccessful relationships. So I'm an expert on what not to do in a relationship.

    My current relationship has gone great.

    I've learned how to "get what I want" in my relationships.

    I've also learned how to approach women naturally in the course of my daily life, get their phone numbers, and take them on dates.
     
  9. Spiritus

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    How about yourself?
     
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    ledzep73 New Member

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    Fair enough. That helps me understand where you are coming from

    You know, there is a pretty long answer to that question, but to sum it up I am as successful as I want to be. I just don't normally want to be attached to someone, but I do a pretty good job of getting others attached to me.
     
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    Heh, and I always thought I was really weird because I was always put off by women who show too much interest in me, and always went after the ones who seemed almost TOO disinterested. In my experience the girls who showed interest in me first (i.e. before I made a few moves) were also unavailable. Twice so far I've had very flirty times with married women without knowing it. Then they let me know at the weirdest times.

    Her: "lolololol that was so fun"
    Me: "Yep."
    Her: "Ok, I gotta go. My husband's picking me up" (said very nonchalantly)
    Me: :ugh:
     
  12. bearsdidit

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    lol ya we'll see
     
  13. bearsdidit

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    makes sense to a certain extent, i'll keep that in mind, thanks.
     

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