Dating an older woman

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  1. Aww_Kittah_Aww

    Aww_Kittah_Aww Active Member

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    I've been hanging out with this girl alot lately and I feel myself starting to develop feelings towards her. Right now we're "friends" but I want to maybe try and take it to the next level.

    Only thing is im 22 and she's 27. When we hang out the age isn't an issue we both get along like we were the same age.

    Anyone ever date an older woman? Your experiences?
     
  2. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    yes. awesome. it's just numbers.
     
  3. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Are you serious? Thats nothing to worry about dude, enjoy it and stop thinking about those random digits.
     
  4. D7

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    :wavey: I date younger men :naughty:

    what does she want?
     
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    I love older women. Older usually equals less drama..for the most part..

    Some women hit their biological clock button to early and kids become imminent
     
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    Older women are good in two ways...if you're looking for something serious, chances are they are too, so a relationship would probably work out since they're more mature and know what they want. There are also just "cougars" who want to just fuck young guys and move on. That's also awesome in its own way. So it depends on what you/she are looking for.
     
  7. saosko

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    How is 27 old?
     
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    Older is the key word, older than him :big grin:
     
  9. Ford4Life

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    That is all I date. I love older women. You don't have to deal with the drama, bullshit and immaturity of the younger ones.

    They are MUCH better in bed too. :big grin:
     
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    :love:
     
  11. Aww_Kittah_Aww

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    This is the main reason I'm attracted to her. Last relationship ended because she didn't know what she wanted. She was two years younger.
     
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    As far as what she wants im not sure. I'm beginning to like her more than a friend but I'm not sure how she feels towards me. We hang out constantly and always have a good time. She just moved here from Michigan so I've been taking her out and showing her around town.
     
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    i would love to date older women.
     
  14. D7

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    So what's the next level for you?

    You would need to find out where she is in life, what she wants, her timeline. Not saying she wants everything tomorrow, but 2 years, 5 years, 7 years all make a big difference. You need to also know what you want, like how far you want this to go.

    You're still very young for any committed relationship IMO. At the very least, enjoy the sex since you both are in your prime :naughty:
     
  15. Ford4Life

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    Go for it. Older women know what they want, the level of crap you'll have to deal with is nothing compared to a woman in the 18-24 range. They are over the 'OMG lets get druuuuuuuunk 24/7' phase of life to, which I personally can't stand.
     
  16. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Unless you're supernaturally mature for your age, she'll eventually think you are too immature and leave.
     
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    Nm, not gonna bother, edit.
     
  18. saosko

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    :werd:

    That's why you gotta take advantage and enjoy it while it lasts.
     
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    Exactly. :h5:
     
  20. D7

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    The bigger problem is binding in a commitment (on whatever level) from a man who hasn't lived his youth = his regrets down the road

    big :nono:
     
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    That is why these relations usually tend to stay physical, not as much emotion involved as if he would be an older male.
     
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    I've always (read: ALWAYS) dated women who are about 4 years younger than me (not consciously intentional, I swear :hsugh:). There are lots of issues with it, the one D7 just mentioned being a significant one. Of course these issues diminish as people get older. The difference between a 29 year old and a 25 year old isn't that bad, but you couldn't pay me enough to make me want to date a 21 year old though.
     
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    It just depends on your perspective, what is considered immature to one isn't to the other. I think relationships with mild age difference compliment each other very well.
     
  24. D7

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    tbh, if you want *something* more, take the sex to the next level. Play out your fantasies or if you need ideas, visit the FreakShiat forum and pick up a few ideas. Older women are less inhibited and I'll bet she'll be down for some fun. Try that for 6-12 months and if you still have feelings for her, revisit an emotional relationship.
     
  25. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    meh, It is really related to the people involved in it in my opinion. I know 22 year old guys that are very mature, know what they want and are after a serious relationship and I know a lot of others the exact opposite. Personally I don't like to date a younger guy at least now, later in my thirties I'd be ok with it if our age difference was not TOO much.
     

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