Dating a tGirl? (anonymous thread)

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  1. Darketernal

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    Firstly I think of myself as a 'normal' hetro male, but I'm sure we've always had a fascination with our penises, etc. I feel I'm very open and quite comfortable with my sexuality, I would probably try anything once. Chalk it up to experience and move on.

    Now I've met, online, this very attractive (personality/visually) Non-Op tGirl. This is my first ever experience of this nature. Now we've not spoken about sexual specifics, but cover some area. The things you can imagine, how she likes it ... how I like it, etc.

    Now I'm of two minds, I'm willing to try anything to be happy. In the past I've not enjoyed sex, for the most part, due to thinking too much and more so about getting a woman pregnant + guilt issues. This of course is not an issue ... so might end up being my perfect woman and what I'm designed to be with.

    But to try this, I have to step into that life. Where as I'm scared that if I 'jump into that pool' and realize it's not for me, then how to I come back from such a social grey area. How my family and friends will act around me. Which if it's for me I wont care what they think, but it turns out, then I'm stuck.

    Ultimately I have to do what makes me happy, but I have to factor that into my life as a whole. So any thoughts.
     
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    Do what makes you happy man :dunno:.

    I wouldnt ever put someone elses thoughts/opinions in front of my own when it comes to who I love. What matters is how the two people themselves feel about the situation.

    As far as it not working, what to say afterwards, what to do, how to explain to the family, etc, thats really all on how you take the whole situation. If this is something you are attracted to and feel like it will 'work', then go for it.

    Dont let the possible negatives kill any chance of your want to try something different.

    Is this something you just want to experience or plan on having it last a long time? This is something that I assume will be 'explained' or opened up to the family if it is in fact anything serious.
     
  3. ForgottenSpiral

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    Maybe I'm an ass, but I don't give a shit what my family thinks about me and my friends are all accepting, openminded people (otherwise they wouldn't be my friends). So basically fuck what others think. You sound like you're enjoying this relationship and want to try and take it further. So do it. Just be sure you're considerate of the other person's feelings too.
     
  4. Dahlia

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    There is(hopefully she will see your post) a tgirl that posts in Freakyshiat. I would go post this over there as well, as more people over there have dealt with this issue.

    I say do what makes you happy and not to worry about what anyone else thinks.
     
  5. saosko

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    t as in tranny?

    I'm lost
     
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    Yes.
     
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    Good advice! I forget her name too.
     
  8. Dahlia

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    I'm almost positive that using "tranny" is offensive and I would stick with whatever she tends to call herself. I know the girl in fs would refer to herself just as a tgirl or as transgendered.
     
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    Not trying to be offensive, just wasn't sure what the ''T'' stood for.

    So basically chick w/ a dick. Cool.
     
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    iirc that'd be a crossdresser. a tgirl is someone who is at some stage of the changing process.
     
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    I've never heard the terms "non-op" or "tgirl" either. I would assume non-op is a term for someone who is what most would think of as pre-op, but has no intentions of getting an operation. So my guess is this is essentially a person with male genitalia who identifies themself as a female. :dunno:
     
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    sparklwazngurly hasn't been around in FS much lately (I just checked and she hasn't been on since April). You could try a PM to her. She is pre-op though (I think).

    It still might be worth the anonymous poster's time to check out sparkl's threads and I believe she has an interview in the archive as well.
     
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    She was when she posted. Here are some definitions of terms used:

    M2F - means Male 2 Female, the other side of it would be F2M
    T-Girl - means the same thing as M2F, also used is transwoman
    HRT - is Hormone Replacement Therapy
    SRS - Sex-Reassignment Surgery, sometimes called a sex change.
    Pre-op - not doubting anyones ability to decipher this but, it just means I have not undergone SRS.
     
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    im going to have to agree.

    he also reminds me of another poster on the vag who made a thread about being scared of knocking girls up.
     
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    A ton of us guys i'm sure are "scared" of getting a girl knocked up.....doesn't stop me from tearing up a pussy though. :rofl: :rofl:
     
  16. saosko

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    It's a premeditated excuse he most likely used his whole life to try to convince himself that he doesn't love the kawk.
     
  17. Dahlia

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    Actually, theres a bunch of guys that are curious, they do something once, get it out of their system, and thats that.

    Plus, he would still be acting as the male in the relationship, if she is a tgirl, that means she would want to act as the female, and they are not a top.
     
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    well...on one hand if you have sex with her you will most definitely get to put it in her butt....
     
  20. saosko

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    eww hairy manhole.
     
  21. Dahlia

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    I think you have misunderstood that they are trying to be like a girl.
     
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    yea...I'm guessing they'd wax/shave/etc....:dunno:
     
  23. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl: that's a fair point :dunno:

    :doh:

    Call it a hunch, but I bet she'll take care of the hairy part being that she's now a woman.

    Less hairy manhole, more cleanly waxed butthole.
     
  24. saosko

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    Some girls have hairy buttholes too.

    What do ''tgirls'' do with their wang while they fuck?

    All I can picture is the helicopter.
     
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    I've never seen a girl with a hairy butthole IRL or on the internets. :dunno:
     

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