LGBT Dating a friend's ex?

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  1. marxwa99

    marxwa99 Boom Squad

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    They dated for only a month, so probably cant consider it to be an ex. My friend says he wouldnt mind if we did go date, but things can change. Anyone have any experience/advice/tidbits/fun stories/gossip/blah blah blah

    Hugs and kisses and all that gay shit ;)
     
  2. MapleLeaf

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    I dated my ex's, ex. We lasted 4.5 yrs. It is weird on some levels, but on others it was perfectly ok (not like gay men have the same rules as heterosexual one's when it comes to you can do this... but not this...)
     
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    it wreaks of gay drama
     
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    Heck it was only brief, and mutual friend that use to date him never even knew about it, but I have to admit if felt weird all the same.
     
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    I dated my ex girlfriend's best friend ;)
     
  6. CoCo

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    It depends on the relationship the friend&Ex had, and the circumstances of the breakup, but overall I opt not to play with my friend's leftovers... In high school, it severely damaged circles of friends. In college, I refused to entertain such thoughts; once I knew that a friend had had a guy, he was off limits (for actual sex :coolugh: ). But I have friends who dated friends' Exes...
     

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