(Cliffs at bottom.) Yeah, that sounds like a good problem to have, right? Well not so much with me. I've never just casually dated anyone before, I've always just jumped into a relationship, but I got dumped a month ago and the last thing I want right now is a commitment, because I'm not ready to get hurt again (yes I know I will be hurt more and worse in the future, just not ready to deal with it right now) and I just want to do whatever I want for a little while. I'll try to make this as short as possible. I'm 23 and I'm dating 3 very different girls/women/females whatever you want to call them. One is 19 and an ex girlfriend, really intelligent, very very pretty, but has screwed me over in a past relationship. She is very churchy, and I am not, and that caused some problems in our past relationship. Her family didn't like me because I wasn't raised in the church, even thought I treated her better than she had ever been treated. She broke up with me because it was her freshman year in college and she was stressed, and couldn't handle a relationship. It's also weird with me having a career and her just getting started in college. Last Friday we went out to dinner, I had a few beers, and all those old feelings came back to me, and we ended up kissing, which is a big deal to her. I told her I liked her, but couldn't be in a relationship with anyone right now. She said that was fine, because she's scared too. Enter girl #2, 26, I work with her. She's older than me, which is pretty cool I suppose, she's more mature than the other 2. After girl #1 left, I called up girl #2. We went out and had some drinks at a bar, ended up making out, etc. I like her because we can go out and get drunk and have mindless conversation, but she's just OK looking. The fact that she works with me is what makes me very cautious about getting into a commitment. Saturday, I hang out with girl #3. She's my age, and we also used to date, back in november, she broke it off to get back with her ex. Pretty much all I do with this girl is get drunk and have sex with her. The sex is incredible, but beyond that it's really kind of boring. She's intelligent, she just doesn't have alot to say, and neither do I when I'm around her unless I'm drunk and we're talking about sex. So, I went on dates with 3 different girls in 2 days, and all of them want me to commit, even though they haven't come out and said so. As I've told my friends, if all 3 of them were combined that would be the perfect woman for me. Have any of you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it? This is really petty I know, but I just had to vent somewhere. Cliffs: I'm 23. Dating 3 girls, never dated more than one girl at a time before. 1 is 19, beautiful, intelligent, but has screwed me over in the past, her family doesn't like the fact I don't go to church every week, she's not a sexual person, I am. 2 is 26, co worker, can just get drunk with her and make out, the co worker thing is what makes me nervous about that situation, plus she's not as attractive as the other 2 girls. Girl 3 is my age, and we usually just get drunk and have awesome sex, but other than that it's boring. Having trouble balancing all 3, can't commit to any of them. What to do?