damn women..

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  1. Go991ST

    Go991ST Guest

    has anyone ever dated a girl who was terrible about returning calls?

    i know usually when they're bad about returning calls, that means they aren't interested but this girl still is. i go to school with her so i see her every other day or so (college) and she comes over about 3-4 times a week. when we hang out she always seems into me. always kiss and fool around, etc.
    we went skiing last weekend, slept in the same bed at the hotel, everything was fine. and when i do get her on the phone everything is normal. BUT she hardly ever returns my calls! it pisses me off soooooooooooooo bad. she'll say "i gotta go to class so i'll call you when i get out" and i never hear from here. sometimes if i dont call her it will go 2-3 days! it's crazy.
    im thinking about just calling her and telling her to fuck off cause not returning my calls really piss me off :nono:


    anyone ever dealt with this? i mean a girl who really seems into you when you see her but is terrible about returning calls?
    i've known friends who are bad about returning calls but i mean damn, if she was totally interested she should make a fucking effort. i know i do.

    ideas?
     
  2. JustaMeThang

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  3. Go991ST

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    yeah i read that one.. damn this girl pisses me off. i mean i won't have trouble finding another girl but i've been with her for a couple months so im a little "attached" but im at the point where im gonna call her and tell her "since you can never make time to call me back, i think it's best we dont see each other anymore" and fucking hang up on her so this REALLY pisses me off.
     
  4. mkevaldz

    mkevaldz New Member

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    I'd say go ahead and tell her that, be single, and be single for a while.

    You really need to be good with yourself as an indivdual before you should seek a partner, otherwise you become dependant on constant attention from them, and when you don't get it...well you already know what happens when you don't get it.

    Your life shouldn't revolve around your partner, it should include it, but not rotate around it.

    Anyhow, work on yourself, be ok flying solo, work on your dreams, goals, and career, be self sufficient, then, when you find someone, if they are good at calling back or not, you will be your own person.
     
  5. Go991ST

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    i don't need to work on myself. i've had plenty of relationships in the past. my life far from revolves around any woman and i'm not dependant. if anyone needs to work on themselves, i'd say it's you. when 2 people fall in love, they "need" each other and yes their lives could revolve around their partner. while im for sure not saying i depend on her or im in love cause im not BUT when you're dating someone you expect them to call you back! you can't tell me you don't expect the same!
     
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    no need for personal attacks, I'm not saying you are a bad person, I'm sure you're a great guy, so don't get defensive like I"m saying you suck at life or something, I"m trying to help you.

    Yes, it is stressing to call her and have her not call you back, but look how you are handeling it...instead of calmly approaching her and asking if there's a peticular reason she has trouble returning your calls, then working on it from there, you let it fester inside you, until the point where you are just going to tell her you don't need her shit and dump her..you have any idea how that's going to sound to her? She's going to wonder why you just didn't ask beforehand and let it come to this as opposed to relying on the key ingredient on a relationship, communication...she has communicaiton problems, that is obvious, but you do as well man...you both need to talk and work on your respective problems.
     
  7. chica&buddies

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    she's not going to know what bothers you unless you tell her. for example, when people call me, i HATE it when they don't leave me a message. it just annoys me. so, if you want me to call you back, you'd better leave one. otherwise, i don't think it's too important. :dunno: my friends know this though. ;)
     
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    i hate leaving messages, espcially on home phones (instead of cell phones) :o
     
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    ;) i'm talking cell phones... but i do want them to leave a message on both. :hs: for a while i only had a home phone, but i didn't have caller id. :wtc: people would call me, wouldn't leave a message, but would LOOOOVE to listen to my message. :squint: yes, it got me angry. :rofl: :hs:
     
  10. diverlad

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    yes one chic last year kept telling me like all the time that I was withe her but never called me when she said she would and it was weird
     
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    Gah...that drives me crazy...I don't have a caller ID on my phone, so I loathe it when people don't leave messages...
     
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    I quit reading the thread after he started personal attacks on mkevaldz.

    You're a douchebag, she probably doesnt call you cause you act like an asshole and get defensive anytime somebody tries to give you advice that might possibly point the finger at you for having the problem.

    It's always other people isnt it?
     
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    It's allright...I layed out the truth and the truth has a way of making people unhappy, especially if they never thought about it before and it's something they need to do/change. I'm not mad about the attack, been there plenty of times already. Also, because he hasn't replied since, I'm figuring he probably saw my reply to his attack and realized he was being a dork, and hopefully is taking the advice I gave him.
     
  14. JohnDoe

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    I suck at returning phone calls. It's not because I dont like the girl, I just forget easily.
     
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    :werd: That is some great advice there! It's also the truth! If more people would just sit back and take this advice, there would probably be less relationship problems in the world. :)
     
  16. meatball

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    my girlfriend calls me all the time, and I suck at returning phone calls/

    It's all good, what's the big deal? Talking on the phone sucks anyway


    Wait til you start going out for a while, then you'll thank God she's not the type to call every 3 seconds
     

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