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  1. Tugga

    Tugga OT Supporter

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    she is doing my head in

    we been together for a little over 2 months, she still wants to call what we have dating and not bf and gf.

    she won't root

    we only once had oral

    she tells me she doesnt want a serious relationship and that its not me and its her. she says that when it start feeling serious she gets a little turned off

    wtf!

    me 23 she 20
     
  2. Nev

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    I wish I could help you .. I'm in a situation that is nothing like yours right now.

    To be honest, it seems like you're close to friendzoned.

    Stop bringing up being in, or wanting to be in a relationship at all. She obviously doesn't want commitment. Now you have to decide what you want. Personally, I would just cut it off. You'll find out where she truly lies then.
     
  3. the ground folds

    the ground folds rest your trigger on my finger

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    how do you treat her?
     
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    She just insnt that interested in you, plain and simple.
     
  5. Tugga

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    i treat her very good
     
  6. Limited Edition

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    What is her interest level and attitude towards you?

    I'd back away and see if she comes chasing for me.
     
  7. the ground folds

    the ground folds rest your trigger on my finger

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    thats your problem, you are treating her too good, too early.
     
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    After 2 months she would know one way or another. You're already bitchzoned.
     
  9. Elphaba

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    Define?
     
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    deathofxromance New Member

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    i think he means that she won`t settle down
    she won`t "root" down and be his girlfriend.
     
  11. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    eh i dont agree that she's not interested in you...

    she's just young and doesn't want to settle down with just you, she is loving all the attention she gets from guys and doesn't want to miss out.
     
  12. Tugga

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    sorry root is an aussie word for have sex
     
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    Gotcha. Thanks
     
  14. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    This is really good advice. If you stop the relationship now and just kinda let her go about her business then if she wants you and starts to have feelings for you she will come back. If she just lets you go like you did to her then it's something that wasn't meant to be and should've not gone this far to begin with.
     
  15. Tugga

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    I think thats what I'm going to do.

    Its her birthday Friday so I will wait till next week I think.
     
  16. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Good call. Ruining her birthday would be bad news.

    On the other hand when doing so in breaking it off with her, leave it known to her that it could happen in the future(maybe you want it to but don't be so blunt about it but make sure she knows).
     
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    I was just going to tell her i wanna go on a break
     
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    That is pussyshit. Be done with her or work things through.
     
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    A break from what? Your fake relationship? Right, yea, tell her that, have her laugh in your face.
     
  20. Tugga

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    it is pussy shit

    i tell her game over :wtc:
     
  21. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Thats true tho. Everything is fixable to a point
     
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    oh fuck! this is a Carbon Copy of my relationship!!!!!!!!
    and her bday is this friday too :noes: and i dont care if i ruin her bday but i aint showing up. fuck her.


    except i got laid :o

    honestly..... let it go bro...i did and now shes wondering why i stopped talking to her. so i told her im tired of her games.


    re: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3056462
     
  23. Nev

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    no, don't tell her anything, because then you get inolved in stupid conversations and arguments. just stop giving her attention.
     
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    Going on no info, this is my take as well. I bet you've been seeing her multiple times a week, step it back a bit. You don't have to break up with her, say nothing and just withdraw somewhat, stop calling her so much, etc. She will start chasing you, unless what she's hinting at is that she already wants to break up.
     
  25. nish81

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    2 months, 23 and 20, and no sex? let it go bro
     

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