Current gf is confusing,but great how to keep her?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    Ive been going out with my current gf for 1 month. Everything is going good,but a few things get me really confused and concerned. She always talks about sex,but says she is never really horny? we didnt have sex yet,but nothing really turns her on. Kissing her neck, kissing her stomach, even as she says rubbing her private area!!! I was like u must be f--ck- lying to me bout that!! By the way she is 20 im 24.

    She always is asking about my dick size as if im not huge it will do her no good, but she is never really that horny??!! She claims only about once a month or so.
    She doesnt want to have sex with me yet,but she has had sex in the past with people that were not her bf???

    Everything else is going really good and were getting along pretty well. she is nice,caring,considerate and what not. The last problem i feel she is to hot to handle. Im confident in myself,but i never dated anyone this good looking. Guys no matter where we go are looking and i bet wanting some, but i dont want to be worried about how she acts when she is alone without me there. It is hard to gain her trust that she will be truthful to me.

    Suggestions?
     
  2. Abomb

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    date someone ugly so you have more self confidence
     
  3. SexCells

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    she sounds like a head case already, i know you wont take my advice anyway. but run away. i dated a girl like her. it was like trying to chase my tail
     
  4. Socrates

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    Go to Barnes and Noble or Borders or something and read up on some tantric sex, or sensual massages.

    Any girl can get horny, you just have to put her in the mood.
     
  5. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    :ugh: IL+1.

    Anyway, here's a hint: if she is talking about sex (even in a negative sense) SHE IS HORNY. You said she is conservative. I would bet that she has mental hangups about being sexual. I know my (fairly conservative) LTR has fantasies about being 'taken' sexually and used for MY gratification. I think most women do.

    If she is talking about sex, CAVEMAN her! (Just TAKE her).
     
  6. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    If she says she's not horny, tell her you don't believe her. She very well may not be horny, but make her believe that she is and she will be. Get her hot by talking about what you want to do to her, like how you would eat her out, lick her all over, etc. This girl sounds like she needs a very aggressive alpha male in order to get in the mood.
     
  7. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    Why did you agree to be her boyfriend before having sex with her?

    She is toying with you.
     
  8. MattThom01

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    lol, wow...
     
  9. Zaffir

    Zaffir OT Supporter

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    Exactly. And based on his "she's too hot for me" attitude he's most definitely not that.

    Like someone above me said, caveman her. Jump her bones one day. Don't say a thing, take some time to get her warmed up and go from there.
     
  10. Abomb

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    wow, what?

    hes right


    fucking beta :greddy:
     
  11. MattThom01

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    I was wowing at the whole "why did you agree to be her bf before having sex with her" comment.

    And I'm starting to get really sick of all this "alpha" and "beta" stuff...seems like it's the new vaginarium fad.

    I think I'll just start using terms like delta, gamma, and epsilon, just to be cool.

    Although, it does kinda sound like the girl wants a porno star for a bf...probably some huge black guy.
     
  12. Abomb

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    and my post was in response to you wowing at the why did you agree to be her bf comment :p
     
  13. -argonaut-

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    She apparently has some hangups about herself.

    I'd suggest plying some alcohol say, at a party, to help loosen her inhibitions and get you two in the sack, then try not to act too disappointed if the two of you are incompatible. if you are sexually compatible, all of the stigma that's been keeping her restrained will be gone.
     
  14. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    I would leave someone who said she had sex with people that did not even date her but wont have sex with her boyfriend.
     

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