curios: do women miss the attention or the person when said person goes away?

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  1. moses

    moses OMGWTFBBQ

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    perfect example, Swingers. at the end when Mikey is finally over his ex and she calls him up because she misses him or whatever. Its like she knew...

    Do women miss the attention that you used to give them, or the person in general. I noticed this myself recently, I used to see this girl awhile back, she's my sisters friend. when she found out i was way interested in this chick thats currently confusing the fuck out of me, all the sudden she's very flirtatious and calling me up and trying to hang out with me saying this girl isn't right for me. Hell one night she drug me into a bathroom at a club to try and mess around with me.

    Anyway, i know this is how it ends up typically and I just wanna know why.

    ibthispostmakesnosense
     
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    cat string
     
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    moses OMGWTFBBQ

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    so its the fact that they don't have their attention anymore?
     
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    XaPU!M Active Member

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    Yes, it also helps if they know your attention is on someone else.
     
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    moses OMGWTFBBQ

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    damn, what bitches.
     
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    XaPU!M Active Member

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    Not really, cat string works on guys to. Humans as a species are attention whores.
     
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    it doesn't matter. what matters is you can use it to fuck them
     
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    go on....
     
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    in a practical sense, there is little difference between a woman chasing you, and a woman chasing your validation. just don't be too available and give her the bone
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It can be both; depends solely on the girl and the situation. Obviously a girl could dump a guy and then realize soon after that she missed him dearly. But of course there are those girls who dump a guy, he chases her sadly forever, and the second he stops she is crushed that she no longer has the attention she once received. Girls like validation a lot of times. Why do you think girls love guys who don't pay attention to them?
     
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    i thought it was just cuz they were batshit crazy.

    i'm wondering if the feeling is the same in the person whether its she misses him or the attention he gave her
     
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    women love drama dude, thats why they watch soap operas and what not
     
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    :rofl: Well that is a part of it
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    The difference is that if she missed him then she'd be happy if she got him back and would stick around. If she just missed the attention then she'd get bored of him quickly once she started getting the attention again.
     
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    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    Werd on this thread. Both ex's who I still talk to get EXTREMELY jealous whenever I bring up another woman and totally get pissy saying she isn't right :mb::cjerk: and sorts.

    It's completely ridiculous and attention whorish, granted not all women do it but a large portion do and it gets freaking annoying.
     
  16. That jealousy turns regular, confident guys off.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You didn't have to actually answer the rhetorical question.
     
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    ya know, i've always known that... but for some reason it makes more sense now.
     

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