Cumming too fast and penis size

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  1. sadangryboi

    sadangryboi New Member

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    seems like everytime i have sex with my gf i cum or want to within the first 30 seconds =X what can i do to stop this or make it not as bad?

    after i cum i can bang forever after that and control when i want to cum,....i dont get it, help me out

    plus my penis is about 6inch long and 1 1/4 wide side to side not all around...would that please alot of the females out there? ive been with one girl my whole life and still am with her...this is just more knowledge id like to pick up.
     
  2. Hoss

    Hoss Nah, i had water yesterday

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    hmm

    I understand your pain bro
     
  3. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Can we make a stocky of all the people that post about thier penis not working the way they want, or not being the size they want?

    Its funny that on the first page in the vag, half the topics deal with the same thing. Alot of insecure people out there...
     
  4. penis size has nothing to do with it.. jack off before you sex and you will last longer, or just do it a bunch of times in a row like me and my SO do :bigthumb:
     
  5. sadangryboi

    sadangryboi New Member

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    yea i understand that...but what if i leave my girl and want to go search for diff girls..
    am i going to hang out with her all day then just as we are about to have sex say brb in the moment and jack off then come back and bang? lol dont think so

    i think ill go back to my pc muscle exercises and jelqs.:hsd:

    it should help me control myself alot better, until then...im stuck with cummin within 30 seconds and good banging after that.

    thanks guys
     
  6. You dont have to jack off right before, do it when you wake up in the shower or something.

    Most girls will understand, personally, i take it as a compliment that im 'just that good' :rofl:
     
  7. sadangryboi

    sadangryboi New Member

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    will blowing ur load anytime of the day each day before u actually have intercourse help u last longer?
    never tried it honestly, maybe itll cure my 30 sec syndrome LOL
     
  8. Kix

    Kix Jailbait tested, Milf approved

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    You are over thinking it all. If you can bust a nut and keep goin then whats the harm. And as far as penis size, you are the only one who it will ever matter to. Learn how to work it and your good to go.
     
  9. JordanClarkson

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    have her get you off with oral sex first
     
  10. {WBK}Blood_Lust

    {WBK}Blood_Lust New Member

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    whoever gets done first wins as far as i'm concerned so good job bro, you won
     
  11. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    I'm a female.
    I have no idea how other women act, but I could work with that.
    Sounds funny, but...I'd just give you the pre-run, before the re-run. I'd get my rocks off either way...No big deal. :dunno:
     
  12. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    Added to the FAQ!
     
  13. Fakesnake

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    oral for you, oral for her, then you bang her. once you blow your load in her mouth you should be good to go when you get done going down on her.
     
  14. JustinH

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    jerk off before all big dates. People think I say that because it was on Something about Mary, but its very true especially for younger guys who will blow it in two seconds.
     
  15. dloseke

    dloseke Noobish Silver Member

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    I remember back when I was a youngin' and would come fast, but typically my girl at the time would give me a bj or something like that, I'd come fast, and then could go for hours after that....sadly, those days have left me...I need to get back into shape and build up some stamina
     
  16. I'll Post My Advice On This...

    I have the same problem........what I do is just go really slowly at first, than after a little bit the nerves arent as sensitive and you'll get over that urge to burst right away, than you'll be able to go on forever....and by the time your ready to go it has been building up for so long that youll be able to fill up a coke can.

    Or: If your in the situation where its a one night stand type of deal, and you want to look good in bed..especially if the gurl is hot, I find that you can always perform better if you pretend your a pornstar, it sounds stupid but if you picture yourself being filmed in a porn you get all this confidence and will be able to give it to her properly

    just my opinion.....
     
  17. someguy88

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    :rofl:
    and i thought i was the only one who does that
     
  18. chlywly

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    It's all about self control and the only way to do that is not to concentrate on the orgasm at all; in fact learn to concentrate on other parts of her body while having sex and not just on the sensations of your penis.

    As well you have to concentrate on your breathing, you have to have steady even deep breaths. When you feel you are about to cum you have to stop... and not move; get her to help you train yourself. Sometimes you can pull out and 'pull' on your "kegal muscle" PC muscle... same muscle you use to stop going pee in mid streem....

    Pc muscle excercises are very important to lasting long in the sack so start doing them, do a google for more info.

    Its 80% in your mind.
     

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