Cuddling Question

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  1. aznh2oman

    aznh2oman OT Supporter

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    just say that a guy and a girl, whom are friends are cuddling together in bed. as the bodies are up against each other, the guy gets a hardon. what would you do?
    what if its blatantly obvious that the guy has a hardon, for example if the girls body is rubbing against the guys dick?

    girls what do you usually do?
     
  2. FlaminYon

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    what are you doing cuddling in a bed with a fear of hardons???

    here... what is your age... cause it makes a distinct difference in this case.
     
  3. aznh2oman

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    its not a fear of hardons, its just that i think its a really awkward situation when its one of your good friends that you have known for a long time.

    and i just wanted to know what other people do in this situation.

    i just turned 22.
     
  4. Mugwump

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    If you're spooning a chick and you get a hard-on, she's likely to put the hard-on between her legs and roll you like a crocodile.

    Then it's all over, man.
     
  5. Solus Emsu

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    Age doesn't make that much of a difference technically. I mean if you are 60 and taking Viagra, then yeah, it does. But I am 25 and I still get a hard on sometimes spooning with my wife. Granted she gets tired of me poking her in the butt sometimes, but I can't help it sometimes. :hs:

    So I decided to ask her what she does about it.
    She says that she sometimes just puts a wad of blanket in between us.

    But in THIS case, he is just friends with her, not married to her.
    Obviously she knows about it. So here is what he has to ask himself:
    Is he willing to act upon it? Is she that kind of friend? Or does he not want to sleep with her and possibly ruin their friendship.

    If he is worried about ruining his friendshipwith her, I would say to him "stop cuddling".

    If he is interested in more, then I think he should see how she reacts to it.
    She might move away, she might say something, she might go for it.
    You never know.

    But he has to do is ask himself what he wants to come of this relationship with her.
     
  6. Pringles

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    Solus Emsu

    just summed it up. If you want action do it. If you want to cuddle for the sack of enjoying anothers warmth maybe get a blanket or something to pack down your crouch. Or you could train yourself to not get the hardon.
     
  7. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    Why would you be cuddling with "just a friend"?? You = cuddle bitch. Cuddle bitch = BAD.
     
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    No kidding. Do you cuddle with your guy friends too?
     
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    cuddling and boners go together like peas and carrots.
     
  10. lauren

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    i dont spoon with friends




    that being said, i would take it out and suck it. :o
     
  11. armond

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    LOL

    I am guessing the person you are cuddling with knows you are having a hard on, so basically she is sending you a message.
     
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    :bigthumb:
     
  13. Mizer

    Mizer Who needs sleep!

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    :rofl: HAHA

    Yeah better cover that up unless ya think you wanna take it farter.
     
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    i was going to say that if he's young and worrying about hardon while cuddling, get used to it. Perhaps dont cuddle with people your not sexually attracted to, story over.

    if he was a bit older that he should either try to tap it if the mood is right or stop cuddling with people you aren't trying to get some from. Because its a diff situation, and there aren't too many OK times to be cuddling anymore w/o it being in a conjugal relationship of giving :p

    if he was really old i'd say go watch some murder, she wrote and stop viagraing up at bad times.

    and generally... just pull away a little if you get th hard on, divert the course of it to someplace other than her ass crack and she'll prob never notice
     
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    I wish some of the girls I'm friends with would let me spoon them... in bed....
     
  16. aznh2oman

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    i dont think there is anything wrong with spooning with girls that are good friends.

    but when compared with a girl you just met, the same situations would be awkward with a friend.
     
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    God i would be like "wtf, gtfo"

    My SO likes a lil poke when were cuddling...she knows i am attacted to her.
     
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    i dont mind i guess, depends on who it is, it can be kinda creepy
     
  19. pdsterns

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    Well you could say "Whoops" he's got a mind of his own, if she reaches down and rubs it, 1st base, if she gets up and runs, nothing lost. If she comes back under the covers again, let him popup again, she is now interested in his style.
     
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    its happened to me a few times with one of my friends, we had slept together before we became good friends though so thats why she probably plays along when it happens, if she feels it she will stick her thigh between my legs and start grinding it to see how worked up i get :hs:
     
  21. Solus Emsu

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    Oh don't get me wrong, she doesn't mind it all the time, just sometimes she feels more like sleeping and isn't in the mood, sometimes she is. Hell sometimes I am already asleep and don't know I am doing it.

    But that is the difference with my situation vs. his.
    I am married to my SO, he is just friends with this girl and probably does not sleep next to her EVERY night.
     
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    :werd: I would be upset too.
     
  23. aznh2oman

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    its about whenever i come home from school. so basically like a couple times a month
     
  24. Solus Emsu

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    Then what happens? SPECIFICALLY.
     
  25. AQT4u2NV

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    dot, I like it too :)
     

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