crying during/after orgasm

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  1. boxen

    boxen New Member

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    so my boyfriend and i have been going through a pretty rough spot in our relationship. he's preoccupied with school and whatnot, and has been grumpy for the past few weeks. we've strayed away from sex recently, until last night. we had just finished talking over a big fight we had a few days ago when we got to business. he was going down on me, and right as i was about to cum i burst into tears. we were both like :ugh: and i couldn't stop crying for like 10 minutes.

    has this happened to anyone else? is it just because we've been having problems? i'm confused, help me out. :hs:
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Not to me.. but to other girl friends of mine. Sounds like you've got a lot of emotional issues that you need to work through. Maybe you weren't emotionally ready for the sex, you know?
     
  3. boxen

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    my best friends thinks it's because i've been trying to appease my BF and be there for him while he's stressed and i haven't been showing him that he's stressing me out too, so i just let it out when i was most vulnerable. :dunno: it's weird though, because i was stoked for some play :hs:
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Exactly.
     
  5. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    id rather the girl cries during the sex
     
  6. boxen

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    i'd rather just... not cry.
     
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    yeah i've done this quite a few times, usually when i'm feeling especially close to him or emotional about something. i really wouldnt worry about it too much.
     
  8. boxen

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    but i'm usually not the "emotional" type. what did your bf do? mine sat holding me for a few minutes asking me what was wrong and then was like "well... if it's any consolation... your vagina tastes amazing." ahahahaha. then i stopped crying.
     
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    This just happened to me the other night with a chick. But she stopped because she didn't want to cry. She's never had an orgasm before but I knew she was so close.

    I was like "What the fuck? Don't stop. We can use those tears for lube!"
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: At least he handled it in a kind way. A lot of immature guys would've gone :ugh: "WTF is wrong with you!?"
     
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    :mamoru: yeah, he's a good guy. that's why i'm putting up with all of this shit. i know it'll get better soon.
     
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    I cant really say I'm usually the "emotional" type either...although that may depend on the day. Basically he just held me and wiped my tears away, and then we fell asleep. It wasnt really a big deal in our case.
     
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    When we were going through a rough spot, I tried not to feel anything for him because I knew we were nearing the end. When we had sex, those emotions would come flooding back, and it would make me cry when I came.
     
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    There is something about orgasms and massages that bring out unexpected tears.............:dunno:
     
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    That's kinda hot, but kinda :hs: at the same time.

    :hsd:
     
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    God, this thread just made me remember some pretty painful memories.

    It's happened to my ex too, but in my case it signified pretty much the death of our marriage.

    In your case you were probably just releasing tension though. It's probably good this happened.
     
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    Shitty thing for you is that probably won't be the last girl you make cry from sex :rofl:












    ZIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIING! :o
     
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    You were likely not ready for it, and had some repressed angst, anger and emotions; so it made you feel strange when you had sex which is a very bonding/close experience, and you came; likely confusion because you were angry feeling distant and had an orgasm which you feel should only be done when you are close.

    You need to speak to him.
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :rofl: I had to laugh at that, come on.
     
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    :rofl:

    Natural enhancement ftw amirite?
     
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