LGBT Crossdressers, & Foot fetish guys..

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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    A couple observations..
    I danced for a long time. I also worked in an adult bookstore for a long time.
    My experience with crossdressers and foot fetish guys was all good. They were always nice. Never had a problem with any, & most seemed like genuinely gentle guys. I did have to throw out the occasional patron for acting up too much in the back at the bookstore. Never any of them though.
    I'd inevitably end up chit chatting with them. Had a guy come in one night wearing the same underclothes that I was wearing onstage. :rofl: I fuckin' died! That was hilarious! We ended up BSing for awhile, having a couple drinks together.
    My ex was a foot guy. He is very gentle. Unfortunately, it didn't work out, but he was the type of guy who'd stop another from hitting his girl.

    Anyone else care to share any experiences, thoughts? :wavey:
    (Just for background, OP, ex-stripper, & adult bookstore clerk, had my bi curious days..)
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    I've never understood the whole foot fetish thing, but whatever makes your boat float.
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    :dunno: Yeah..The foot thing, pretty harmless stuff. I don't get it either, but, what the hell? I keep my feet nice anyways.
    In his case there was duality, he worshipped women, but hated the control they have over him. I don't think that's really unique to foot fetish guys.
    We went to couples counceling a few times. He was always ashamed of it. That didn't make much sense to me. He asked the psychologist to fix it. I said wait a minute, WTF is he going to replace it with? You don't just remove a fetish, & leave a blank space there...Do you? It's harmless...The psychologist agreed with me, to my surprise.
    Shit, I was afraid he'd turn around from the leg and butt man he was and get obsessed with big boobs or something...That'd leave me in the dark. :eek3: ;)
    Although, I'll admit it's a bit disconcerting when a man in America can wander around all summer long and view sexual organs openly. He used to come home in the summer all fired up. :rofl: :rolleyes:
    Thankyou. :)
     
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    sholnay New Member

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    im with mike, I certainly notice feet and legs - but when im actually with someone, I dont pay much attention to them :naughty: if you know what i mean =) Its more like a turn on from a distance for me.
     
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    :eek3: I seriously remember posting a response in this thread late last night / early this morning! And now its gone! :noes:
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    You did not post to this thread before.
     
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    sholnay New Member

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    welcome to OT RyRy, once you begin dreams about posting, things only get better... ;)

    edit for shitty grammar and structure- no one probably knew what the hell i was saying....
     
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    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    I don't get it either. :hs:
     
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    meh - i dont know what it is... a well defined calf muscle paired with a nice foot... omg, :drool:. Some porns when I watch them, are MUCH better just because I notice those things. I cant explain why this is so. it just is =) kinda like me being gay! :noes:
     
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    Ivy Mike New Member

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    Its about the appreciation of the human form.
    the ENTIRE human form (of whichever sex turns you on the most)

    for me, its the nicely proportioned and toned leg (athletic female build :bowdown:) with a nice even looking foot.
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    Very well said.
     
  12. WyldKat

    WyldKat Come with me if you want to live.

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    Aww damn looks like I missed out. :mamoru:


    Foot fetish guys always tripped me out because I never really cared for my feet. I mean, I don't have a hoof or anything but meh...they're feet.

    I've known some wacked out crossdressers, but many of them seemed pretty cool. There was a guy at one club who was totally straight and ran the drag show, it was uncanny how much he looked like cher but when he opened his mouth he had the thickest male NYC accent, it was great. :big grin: One of my old Tampa roomies is a crossdresser as well as a BDSM domme, fun stuff I learned from that guy. He swapped bondage and flogging tips in exchange for makeup pointers. :mamoru:
     
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    :dunno: maybe the schools internet went down while I was typing it and pressed submit because I walked away after I clicked submit and came back later on in the morning to find the page cannot be found screen.
     
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    :rofl: Benadryl owns me I suppose! :mamoru:
     
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    never much for the foot fetish thing. You can tell a lot though about how a person takes care of themselves by how they're hands and feet are taken care of.
     
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    DatacomGuy is moving to Canada

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    Word. That being said, I AM a foot guy.. ;) (Check Freakyshiat)..

    Not real big into guy's feet though..
     
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    The only guys feet I am interested in are my own.
    Now, nice soft, well cared for lady feets. Thats another thing. Shows that she takes care of herself.
     
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    DatacomGuy is moving to Canada

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    Exactly.. Nothing sexier then someone that takes care of themself and is confident in themself..
     

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