So i met a new girl. Shes fun to be with and personality wise I like her a lot. looks good, dresses nice, etc etc... she actually said that she doesnt just jump into sex with guys she actually likes, and she actually likes me so i have to work for it and earn it. On some level I can respect the fact that shes probably right about that being the smart play most of the time. OF course I know this is how things work, but it still probably shouldn't be said, because I of course say that I never work for sex, its given to me. and there we are. a standoff. shes spent two nights over already. I've kinda lost 90% of my sexual interest in her. it's like im emotionally withholding sex in retaliation for her logicaly withholding sex Yet i really look forward to spending more time rolling around with her in her panties under the covers laughing and making out all morning. and the worst part is that if we do have sex and its not at least average or better that pretty much means the relationship is doomed as far as im concerned. It's already far too complicated for how far in it is.the worst part is if that happens, there we are in the same situation she was trying to avoid in the first place, except now it would be personal. I'm fairly certain she likes me a lot. I cant see the smilies at work. Whats the one for :running around in circles waving arms making the crazy face:?