SRS Coworker Hitting

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  1. liuman

    liuman New Member

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    Anyways

    So there is this girl~ who has given obviious hints!

    Signs of loneliness~ i can tell
    Anyways, she is a very FUN girl! Social.. always joking around! but at times a big Flirt!
    here's the thing she got married. i belief last yr~
    But the guy... is working out of state!

    AANYWAYS
    yeap! i've heard the RULEs over and OVER
    #1 never date coworkers
    #2 never break #1

    Anyways, hope not to get pulled by temptations! yeap .. she is a hottie.. but ... a bunch of hoties out there!
    Anyways! Suggestion on how to Cut it????????
     
  2. Peyomp

    Peyomp New Member

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    I don't care how much she teases you... do NOT hit her.
     
  3. SeeVinceRun

    SeeVinceRun Currently In Prison OT Supporter

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    Christ man, she's MARRIED. DO NOT PROCEED.
     
  4. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    You have no right to interfere with their relationship. :down:
     
  5. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Forget about her being a cowoker.
    She's married. Do you understand what that means? Grow up a little bit on don't hit on married chicks (btw- I hope you do hit on her and she slaps you with a sexual harrasment complaint!).
     
  6. johan

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    Are you asking us whether it's ok to prey on a vulnerable person just because she's hot?

    What do you think?

    Here's a hint: the fact that she's a co-worker is not the #1 concern.
    You did say she was married right?

    If you go ahead with this (and I think you will) there will be consequences for you.
    Very serious ones if there is any justice in the world.
     
  7. liuman

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    Right!!
    i guess u guys misunderstood! something here.....

    She is defenitely TEASING Big time!
    and yeap!! She is Married..and HOT... no q's about that..

    Temptation is always there~ but .. Im defenitely stepping out of that game!
    however SHit!!
    how the hell do i Push her... OUT ??

    that's where the "SUGGESTION" box comes in play....... Thanks guys
     
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  8. Panoptimist

    Panoptimist Put a bangin' donk on it.

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    Tell her to calm down or you wont throw her a bone.
     
  9. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Threatened to throw a sexual harrasment complaint against her ;)
    Tell her flat out you're not interested. How hard is that really?
     
  10. Peyomp

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    If she doesn't do anal with hubbie, but she does with you... is it cheating?
     
  11. liuman

    liuman New Member

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    GEEEEEEZZ SEXUAL HARR. COMPLAINT!! That's HARSH!
    but mmm~~ I'll give it a SHOT!!

    I guess! I 'll put things straight!! and ............ stop the shit

    But! thanx for the.. Advices ppL~
     
  12. z31maniac

    z31maniac *insert witty remark*

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    What is up with everyone saying this?

    It takes TWO people, TWO people to cheat. Regardless of who instigates the encounter it takes both people to consent to it. If the chick in the relationship cheats, not all the blame can be put on the guy she cheated with, she is just as responsible. If not more so than the guy she cheated with.
     
  13. Toasty

    Toasty Naked people have little or no influence on societ

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    So what's your point. It's wrong no matter who starts it.
     
  14. Mars Princess

    Mars Princess They hatin'

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    Make it Very clear that you are not interested and do not encourage her advances. I am not sure what kind of job you have, but it is unprofessional to date/flirt with coworkers. Not only does it look bad but word around the job can get arround. the last thing you want is your name in everyone's mouths. Also, it sounds like you and this girl would be a disaster getting together in any kind of way because she sounds pretty dumb if she's going to openly flaunt herself
     
  15. liuman

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    Waaaaaait a minute! I have not had anythinng w/ her~~
    i was .... thinking of the consequences! of what if things do GO farther!! I mean, come on! it is obvious, when ppl flirt~ ok? and YES! It happened on me!
    not trying to sound like the victim!
    but I've heard these kinds of things happening! in work places~ unfortunatelly happening on my side!
    and yeap!
    Thanks! for all the RoCKS thrown at me! =)
    but.. I Know I wont let this go any farther!~~
     
  16. z31maniac

    z31maniac *insert witty remark*

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    Point is, just seems like everyone in this forum tends to place the blame on the person being cheated with, when just as much responsibility lies with the cheating party, if not more.
     
  17. Toasty

    Toasty Naked people have little or no influence on societ

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    Ok. so she's made the offer and bears responsibility. Now the balls in his court to make the right judgement call here. I think that's all everyone is saying.
     
  18. z31maniac

    z31maniac *insert witty remark*

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    Ok. I'll accept that answer.
     
  19. liuman

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    Doone~~ =)
     

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