Apologies for the length of the post. If anything, at least I can just vent. That's what the forum's for, isn't it? Anyway.... My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. It was all wodnerful and great at first, but quickly deteriorated (at least for me), when a lot of stuff happened and I came to learn more about her. I didn't feel the same way about her anymore and I started becoming distant. She noticed and brought it up this week. Tonight, I finally convinced myself to just do it and get it over with. The problem is, I just couldn't. In all honesty, she's a wonderful girl, very sweet, does anything to make me happy. Truly selfless. There just isn't that "click" though, I don't feel excited to see her, I get annoyed at her calls, etc etc. To me that just says, "she's not the right girl for me." It's such a shame, and hard to come to grips with. We enjoyed some good times. It was a 4 hour ordeal just earlier. She went on trying to convince me not to do it, I was persistent, until she broke down into uncontrollable crying. I mean, really bad, nothing I've ever seen before during a break-up. I couldn't handle the pain I was causing her, she kept begging for 2 weeks to prove herself so she could at least know it's not her fault, and at that point if nothing changed, she would walk away. Did I do the right thing? I don't think I did. But I couldn't bear to see the absolute pain she was going through, and I cried with her because of it. I care about her enough to do this for her, yet I know nothing will change. Should I bring it back up and kill it for good? Let her have her "2 weeks"? I'm pretty confused.