could this make me sound like some sort of stalker?

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  1. steveyblack

    steveyblack y halo thur

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    ok there is this girl thats in my school(hs son) and i really know nothing about her, she is cute and all and i want to say something but i never really suck it up and talk to her...i was thinking maybe i can ask one of her friends/classmate her name and then look for it on myspace and add her and break the ice via myspace...hmmm i might just stop being a pussy and go and talk to her the good old fashion way??
     
  2. Doc Love

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    you mad dumb, son.
     
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    thought so, lmao ill just talk to her the old fashion way =]
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Learn a new phrase.

    That being said OP, I'm going to guess you are young as hell. From someone older and wiser let me just say: Man the fuck up. Asking others who she is and then searching for her on Myspace takes a hell of a lot more effort and has less results than just talking to her one day in class or at school in general.
     
  6. Yuppy

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    why dont you break the ice and talk to her. And maybe even add her to your myspace.

    dont be a fag and let someone else add her for you.
     
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    yah only 16 here, my problem isnt that im afraid to approach them but what to talk about, like when there is something to talk about i can go up to any random person and talk, but when there is nothing i cant do shit...i can always just say whats up and small chit chat then ask her name and what not then go on from there?
     
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    noo i have no probs adding her...
    i just need to find out what her name is, then search for her in the search thing they have and add her..
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Doc Love, I'm glad you deleted that last post (for your sake) :rofl:

    That's exactly what you can talk about. I mean shit, you guys are in HS. You can talk about class, homework, if she's on any sports teams/clubs, etc.

    Just trust me, using Myspace to try and meet women is only a crutch that you can get addicted to. The guys who are most successful at getting women confidently just say hello. Realize how many possible messages she gets from losers on Mysace every day, you want to stand out.
     
  10. Doc Love

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    Copy it for everyone to see.
     
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    browse your friends pages, find her on one of theirs. then add her.

    its easier than you think (just find one of the girls she hangs out w/ at schools page then you can eventually find her)

    But again, like beer said. its not going to work very well. if you want to succeed you will talk to her in person. and if you fail you lost nothing, but learned much. if you succeed, well you wont be a virgin anymore eventually hopefully.
     
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    if some random guy that i didnt know friended my on myspace, i wouldnt add him, and yes I would think he was creepy. Youre much better off walking up to her, telling her you noticed her because shes so cute, and going from there. just be simple and direct, and you just may get what you want.

    Oh and as an aside, youre from middlesex you say? mercer here :)
     
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    yup, were county neighbors
     
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  14. Doc Love

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    Country ahahahahaha. :rofl:

    Not insulting to you. Just really funny you said that, I know what you mean.
     
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    lol i totally forgot to correct that
     
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    don't add her on myspace before you actually talk to her

    mad stalkerish

    You're from Jersey. That's my stomping grounds. If you ask her friend her name she's going to find out.

    Fortunately for you, it's high school, and it really doesn't matter what you do as long as you're relatively cool about it.

    Take it from me -- and every high school grad guy will agree with me -- Just take some chances with women. It kills your nerves, but we've all been through it.

    I had a girlfriend during most of high school, but if I could go back (I don't dwell, it's just a hypothetical) I would have terminated that hell-bound snowball earlier and enjoyed my senior year by systematically telling every girl I was attracted to that I indeed was attracted to her.

    If you want it, go for it.

    I found out a couple years ago that 2 girls I was infatuated with (who weren't my ex, whoops) both liked me but I never said/did anything so nothing happened. Not like I would ever cheat on my gf, but remember -- this is a hypothetical.

    Your freshman year in college you WILL (yes, you will) look back and say "why the fuck didn't I just tell Julia I liked her... and Alison, and Brooke, and Charles -- because I'm also secretly gay."

    You get the picture.
     
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    yea well if you do decide to add her, it will give you a chance to break the ice. However I strongly recommend talking to her at least once first. Just say hi and see how she reacts. talk to her like shes a guy friend (but dont talk about video games or something she will think is boring, talk about cheerleading or sports or whatever SHE is into.)
     
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    don't use myspace as a crutch - besides, how do you even know she has one?
     
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  21. Doc Love

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    I love me some Notorious B.I.G.
     
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    come on! high school chick, halfway cute? shes got one.
     
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    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    Not always, but usually, yes. I never had one in high school.
     
  24. BlackIce72

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    He changes his persona every day
     
  25. Dreams2Reality

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    Man! It's high school bro! This is where you tune your talking-abilities. You're going to studder, you're going to hesitate, hell, you're probably going to look at her feet more then her eyes.. but guess what? It's nature. You need to learn to do it now.

    Chances are this isn't going to be the girl you marry, even if you do hook up with her. Just relax, go up to her and ask how she's doing. Introduce yourself, let her know she caught your eye a few weeks ago and you just had to know her name. After 2-5 mins., excuse yourself, tell her it was nice meeting her, but you have to go.

    See her again in a few days.

    Just relax.
     

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