:edit: - cliffs and update added I work for a computer consulting company, and i was in an office a few weeks ago and noticed a very attrative girl/woman that i exchanged looks and "Hi" with, but being that i am retarded, didnt even think about talking to her. apparently after i left the office she was asking about me and said i was cute(according to my stepmom who works with her) I am supposed to go to a bar wednesday night to meet a girl that works with my step mom. She works at the bar, one night a week as a Bud Light girl. about me: Start out by saying that i am somewhat of the shy type, i can be "nice guy" or i can be a cock, depends on how much i've drank/who i am with. I'm what most people would call "stocky" build,5'11" and ~220lbs, but i dont think im a fatty but could loose a few(or 20 but thats for another day. Im a confident person, but its just getting past that shy part that always makes me look like a puss. I can hold conversation and even get some laughs usually. My friends GF's that get to know me say that im an awesome guy and that they want to hook their friends up with me (could be a bad i guess) Ive been exclusively single for almost 2 years now, im 22. I've just been super busy with work fulltime(50hr/wk) and school fulltime too(12cr/hr). I dont have much of a life/chance to meet decent women. Ive been in one serious relationship that lasted about 2 years, and i needed a long break after that trainwreck. Ive dated a few girls since then/ in the past 6 months, but nothing serious at all(no ass either ). Every girl that ive ever been involved with has approached me, ive never had to hit on a girl in my life. Thread purpose: Help me come up with some ideas of what to say/talk to her about when i go to meet her. She's very attractive and physically 95% my type, and from what it sounds like she's not a ditz, so i dont want to blow my only chance. Like i said, im somewhat shy at first and need to come up with some game asap. Never had to "pull" girls before, but i need to be prepared incase she's not going to talk. help me out OT god i hope she's not on here cliffs:i found out a really attractive girl wants to meet me, i'm nervous because i think she might be a little outa my league and im shy at first, but im going to give it a shot, and i have no game.