UPDATED i am seeing a girl for a month but we have been talking for more than 2 months now. we are neighbors in our dorms and before we hooked up she just broke up with her bf for on and off 3 years(her "first true love"). for the past month our time has been amazing she said that im am special to her and that i am pretty much hers. we look forward into hanging out and spending time. yesterday, her exbf got shot and is in a critical condition. now i really dont know what to do. i feel guilty that i feel like im stealing her. i feel that i should be there for her. i feel that i should call it off but i dont want to drop another bomb on her. i dont know i dont know. cliffs, seeing a girl for 1 month and she barely broke up with her bf for 3 years(her "first true love) we're about to make official then the ex gets shots now i am confuse on what to do. UPDATE: i took some people's advice. i asked her if she wanted space. she said she doesnt want any. she said that she cares for me as much and she cares for him. i'm just gonna be there for her and not think too much about it. the more i think about it the more i get mix emotions. she says she wants to take care of me and wants to make me happy. really i just dont know. but thanks guys for the advice.