we have been apart 3 days now, we had been on a break before and she decided to be alone for the first time in her life, yet after we talked she did't want to break things off, fast forward to monday samething goes down. wants to be on her own and only wants to talk through email(because "talking to me on the phone changed her mind last time") 1st 2 days no emails, 4 today. nothing big about us, just updating me on her and her families life. info on us when dating things moved kinda fast with living together and marriage and kid talk, and up until breakup i was the one she wanted to marry. so my dilemma is, my friend thinks she isn't interested. my view is that why email so much if there was no interest. why not have as little contact as possible. of course i obviously didn't want things to end so i may be overly optimistic. thoughts?