FRK Confusing man comment...

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  1. DarkAngel19

    DarkAngel19 New Member

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    So, the other night I had given my SO head and he came and all was dandy. But we were tickling and flirting a little afterwards and he bit me pretty hard, so I said, "Oh yeah, well what would you do if I stuck my finger in your ass next time I give you head, eh?" Or something like that.

    And he says, completely straightfaced "I'd let you."

    Now, I was totally kidding at the time, I wanted to make him squirm a little. But... was that, a request then? Or was he kidding too? I have talked to him about it a while ago with a very lukewarm response, and I haven't brought it up again.

    Men... yeesh.

    DA
     
  2. Jabbermewmew

    Jabbermewmew OT Supporter

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    He likes you enough to let you stick his finger in his ass. It wasn't necessarily an invite to do so, but if you wanted to...
     
  3. Jocko

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    If you don't have an aversion to it, give it a try next time. He'll either enjoy it or ask you to knock it off. It can be fun. :naughty: Sounds like he's open to it (pun intended).
     
  4. Unknown

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    I've heard from quite a few people that some man like having a girl play with your ass. The stimulation gets them even more excited. Just tease him so more about it and see what response you get. Then next time you are giving him head, let your finger wonder a little bit and then see what response you will get :)
     
  5. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    just do it next time. OR talk to him about it when You ARENT'T handling his meat and see if he's still interested.
     
  6. Unknown

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    :rofl:

    Sorry but that just made me laugh out loud
     
  7. 0zymandias

    0zymandias Despair!

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    I've always been a little curious about it, but no one has been GGG enough to be willing to try. I know for my own personal experience, I wasn't interested in more..... interesting stuff until I heard about other guys' positive experiences. So if you're willing to try, and he asked for it, go for it!
     
  8. affende

    affende Resident 4X4 Elitest Prick

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    IMO, he wants your finger in his ass.

    that is a serious post, BTW.
     
  9. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Sounds like he is willing to give it a try!
     
  10. Paintballer

    Paintballer Choo Choooo....

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    Sounds like he's willing to try but was waiting for you to bring it up.

    Just start wandering next time your giving him head and see what his reactions are.


    EDIT: oh yea, lube or spit is a must. Spit works great for a finger, Jenna Jamison even thinks so.
     
  11. abs18

    abs18 born & bred red sox fan 4 life

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    well it is a man's g spot...sounds like he's into it
     
  12. Run N. Gun

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    If he looked at you straightfaced, he was serious and was comfortable enough to tell you that he was game. If he was nervous, he would have still be laughing the "I'm not sure about this" kind of laugh. Have you let him do you anally?

    Bring the lube to bed next time and just do it. If he likes it, then you have something new to explore together. Maybe you roll over and tell him, me next! Explore, communicate and go slow! Enjoy.
     
  13. Sprong

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    uh IVe been there and its great but if she forgets about my penis for too long its uncomfortable. but if the stimulation keeps going on the penis its a great fucking feeling.
     
  14. Letifo

    Letifo Moderator

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    the only time i ever think about it really is when i'm getting head. I'd pretty much be up for it then. It's weird, i am not really mentally opposed to it, it's just not something that appeals to me in general, except when i'm getting head and getting my taint rubbed then i feel like i want her to move more south sometimes. Anyway, if it's something you're into, i would suggest slowly making a move towards it next time you're giving him head. If you're not that into it though, i dont' think it's a huge thing of his, so i wouldn't do it unless it's something you are wanting to try as well.
     
  15. fuzion1029

    fuzion1029 New Member

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    sounds like he wants it
     
  16. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    I agree w/PE. Make sure the finger is lubed with something first... :marmoru:
     
  17. SQLee

    SQLee The OTer That Cares™

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    I've never had it done, pretty sure I don't want it done. But I've heard people say they like it. :dunno: Either way, if he said he'd let you, then do it. If he was kidding, then he should learn the art of sarcasm.
     
  18. spankaveli

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    pretty sure he wants you to stick your finger in his ass :dunno:.
     
  19. Mr. Bungle

    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Tip:

    Lube, and maybe even a finger condom...yeah they make those

    Also try it in the shower or hot tub for you and him to feel less self conscious
     
  20. spankaveli

    spankaveli OT Supporter

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    I don't think there will be any self consciousness issues if he told her straight faced that it was ok. :dunno:
     
  21. korrosion

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    lube is a must but sounds like he's into whatever would turn you on. Ask him when your not giving him a bj.
     
  22. Mr. Bungle

    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Even when you want to explore further into pleasing your partner sexually, when it comes to first time anal contact whether its a finger,dildo, or penis, many still have the "but I poop from there!" first reaction. That's why I always advise doing it for the first time or the first few times in a shower or similar environment. Just takes the edge off.
     

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