LGBT Confused as hell.

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by mustbehim, Apr 30, 2006.

  1. mustbehim

    mustbehim New Member

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    Ok just to start off I do not think I am gay but something in my head is telling me I am! I am in a current relationship with someone and we are going on 9 months she is a female. I have had many girlfirends in the past, and love women! I just had some sort of dream a month ago where I was gay and it has really started to affect me. I keep questioning myself if I am gay or not! I looked at gay porn, and started gagging because of how gross it was. I tried to think about having sex with another man and it completely disgusted me also. I just masterbated to some straight porn and cummed! I am still attracted to women, and have no attraction to men! What the fuck is my problem why are these thoughts still in my head confusing me of my sexuality?

    PLEASE HELP ME OUT
     
  2. mustbehim

    mustbehim New Member

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    anyone?
     
  3. MapleLeaf

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    What is it you would like to know? From what I am reading you don't strike me as gay, or if you are, you are deeply in the closet.

    Maybe you are bisexual or maybe you are indeed heterosexual and just having weird dreams.

    The fact you had 1 dream and that gay porn makes you gag does not indicate to me that you are gay. However without talking to you, I do not know for sure and can't judge via OT.

    Sorry, maybe others can chime in here.
     
  4. mustbehim

    mustbehim New Member

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    Thanks.
     
  5. Carrots

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    Once you get an idea like that in your head, it's really hard to let it go, even when you know it's not real for you. I think when they start reconsidering something so basic as their own sexuality, a lot of people get hella scared. Then they think about it some more just to calm themselves down, and then get more worried, and so on. We aren't all perfect, logical beings all the time. If you aren't attracted to men at all, I don't see how you could be gay without being just a very, very closeted bisexual. And if you are, why should it matter? You seem to like women very much, you're in a normal, long term relationship, and if that's your thing, you should keep it up. If, in the future, you happen to find a guy you like, then so be it, but you don't have to deal with liking him right now.
     
  6. disgusting

    disgusting is this a girl or a guy? b/c i got a hard on OT Supporter

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    gotta chill out and eat some vegetables
     
  7. frazzmeister

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    everyone has weird dreams sometimes,..
     
  8. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    no nead to be concerned... sex is natural, sex is fun... sex is best when it's one on one...
     
  9. NOVAJock

    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    I love you Sam! :bigthumb:
     
  10. GND

    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    sounds like you're curious.

    Thoughts/dreams are somethings just that.. THOUGHTS and DREAMS. It doesn't mean you're suppose to or have an urge to act on them. :)
     

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