This is an old thread, but I just put a funny update on the 3rd page which I didn't see coming So last night a real close buddy of mines girlfriend put me in a weird position. She was driving my drunk ass home and told me how she is thinking about leaving him in the next few months if he doesn't cut WAAAAAY back on his drinking. The reason I'm conflicted is I would love if this girl was no longer in my life, I can't stand her. However, he obviously sees something I don't and it's not fair of me not to tell him this because I would love to see her gone... But at the same time, it isn't any of my business anyway... but we're really good friends and I know he'd appreciate the heads up so he can try and work it through with her.... I think, he may not want to hear it or think I'm making shit up, I dunno. So do I tell him what she said? She made me swear up and down that I wouldn't, but the armchair psychiatrist in me thinks that she wouldn't have told this to one of his closest friends if she didn't actually want me to mention it to him... Though she said the reason she told me is the same reason a lot of people tell me shit I don't want to know... I'm just generally a nice guy (not wolfskymoon type of nice guy, just a generally easy going nice dude).