Confident to the point of cocky...working?

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  1. Nev

    Nev OT Supporter

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    I've recently been trying to change my approach on women just a little bit. I stopped being so shy and made myself believe in my head that every girl that I see wants me. I'm almost a little bit cocky with it at this point, but I actually feel good about myself when I'm out at a party or something. I just put it in my head that i'm the best looking guy there and just start talking to girls...and surprisingly, as much of a dickheaded thing this sounds like, it's been working out incredibly well :noes:

    I guess girls like confidence to the point of cockiness?
     
  2. mattz87

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    Yes, they do. Just make sure that you aren't TOO cocky. I've found the girls who I treated like I didnt give a shit were the ones who couldnt stay off me.
     
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    I dont think what you have said so far sounds cocky. But going into a room telling yourself your the best looking in the room would be fine. Your not going around saying it (I dont think) or saying you could get any chick in the room. You sound more confident than cocky. Thats good!. As said above about girls getting treated like shit or ignored are the ones that cant stay off you, I would say in most cases its because the girl wants the challenge of getting you to want her. After that I dont think she will care. If thats what you want I suppose it works.
     
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    confident and funny. dont go overboard with the cocky
     
  5. Nev

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    I think the problem was that I was expecting the girls to call me because that's just how it always worked. I've called a few since then and now i get texts and shit from them when i'm out on the weekends. It was more a matter of me taking a fucking ounce of initiative.
     
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    My personal style is ultra mega cocky with a bit of humor mixed in. It fits my natural personality.
     
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    Great post. This is 100% true.

    The guy should be the initiator, not the one who is sitting by the phone waiting.
     
  8. Nev

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    I'm cocky/teasing/sarcasm...it's just how I grew up. If girls don't get it, then fuck 'em.
     
  9. Nev

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    no, i've been pretty cocky all my life, especially with girls. But it just fell off for a while, now it's back in full swing. :bowdown:
     
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    cocky, funny and confident .. chicks dig it
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    speaking of which, WHO is in ur AV? :eek3:
     
  12. bandwagon

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    My style is soo cocky to the point where its obviously a joke because its so over the top. Gotta have the tonality and bodylanguage to communicate humour.
     

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