confidence > physical appearence when getting a girl?

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  1. the_rebirth

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    sure seems that way. anyone care to disagree :confused:
     
  2. krnbk2

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    yea confidence is key, but there also has to be some physical attraction. oh well, just be yourself and you'll find someone right for you
     
  3. Drowned

    Drowned NameThatPornstar.com

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    Yep, confidence is a big factor, but there always has to be some physical attraction... at least a little bit...
     
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    PrettyLush5 red sky at night

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  5. PrettyLush5

    PrettyLush5 red sky at night

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    and if you're too cocky, I'll kick you in the balls...I hate arrogant fuckers
     
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    so true. I love when cocky guys get shot down, sort of ironic:fawk:
     
  7. Caffeine Slug

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    It's true to a certain extent. If you're a fatty like me, you can have all the confidence in the world and it will still get you nowhere. :fawk:
     
  8. I'm not confident. :(
     
  9. the_rebirth

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    you have 3 friends, none of which are cocky :rofl:
     
  10. dvd

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    how do u describe cocky guys?
     
  11. Storm88000

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    Probably a guy who thinks he can get any girl.
     
  12. saxman

    saxman Burninating the peasants

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    confidence > physical attraction

    doesn't matter, I don't have either
     
  13. Getting women has very little to do with appearance. Even while sick when I was losing weight, and just a fucking train wreck women seemed to be magnetically attracted to me. I looked awful, felt awful, and even "acted" awful because I felt so sick. (Long story - don't ask).

    The key wasn't necessarily "confidence". It was about having integrity and upholding values like sincerity, and communicating the sincerity across the table to the girl I'm with. Women like a man who knows what he wants - I guess you could call that confident, but there is more to the equation then merely that. Confidence is a side effect of a positive attitude, and a "drive" of intensity to do better, be better, and improve one self - while also living up to a set of standards.

    Call me old fashioned but without my values I'm fucking worthless, and I'd die before breaking my values.
     
  14. Licken2

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    I think having a physical appearance that the girl finds asthetically pleasing..... oh hell, let me rephrase. If she thinks you're HOT, you've got a foot in the door. After that, there definitely has to be more there to hold the interest. Attractiveness is subjective anyway.
     
  15. dvd

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    well ..it sucks when hot girls only go out with 'hot' guys.
     
  16. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    its too fine a line.

    i don't have either. but i really don't care.
     
  17. SpaMan

    SpaMan Mind over matter.

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    Im one of those people who can be overly confident and other times not confident at all
     
  18. black jesus

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    It's all a big fucking facade. They want you to look confident so they can break your ass down and be proud of it. The minute you open up and trust a woman, you are fucked. Sure it might get ya laid alot, but you are just as fucked emotionally as every other pussy in the world.
     
  19. physical appearance gets the girl, confidence KEEPS the girl
     
  20. EachIt

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    if by confidence, you mean a big penis... yes...

    Other than that kind of confidence, you best be buying a playboy, you ugly fuck :)
     
  21. chica&buddies

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    :rofl: :bigthumb: couldn't have said it better myself :)
     
  22. Solrac

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    a friend of my friend keeps talking about this big fat guy he knows. He looks just like Chris Farley almost. He is totally outgoing and funny, and the life of the party, but he's a fat ass. Huge.

    And he still gets all the girls. God damn, that shit inspires me. If I could just make everyone laugh, easily, all the time, I would get laid nonstop.
     

  23. That is bullshit. I can't even COUNT the amount of ugly/hot couples I see daily.
     
  24. Playboy

    Playboy Part time arrogant bastard

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    GAME! = How you carry yourself and how you present yourselves to others, mainly women.

    Having the looks serves as bonus points, but not necessarily the basis of. Although there are hoebags out there that'll fuck you for your face/body/cock/etc.

    Remember that :big grin:
     
  25. AZGuy21

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    I thought it was personality that KEEPS the girl? And looks AND confidence gets them. :confused:
     

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