Condoms=Hell

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  1. tehexile

    tehexile New Member

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    yea condoms are by far the worst thing ever. i get mad upp really really fast, but then when i throw one on, sometimes i end up going limp :wtc: it makes her feel so bad, because she thinks shes turning me off, which is NOT the reason. last night we were in my car, and we went once, and it was great. since i really just started having sex, im able to get back up after one or two times (after a few minutes). i got back up a bit, she gave me a little sucky (first time ever for that :rofl: ) then i put on the condom, went in, and went limp. it SUCKED i felt so bad, but it wasnt her fault in the least. then we got back to my house, and did it on the basement floor without one :naughty: (she had just finished having her period, and i trusted her when she said it was OK)

    anyways, any ideas on how to get over this shit, its starting to drive me crazy.
     
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    Cashishift Well-Known Member

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    is she in birth control :hsugh:
     
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    lick wid nit wit Official OT Oracle

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  4. opie

    opie hi. OT Supporter

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    I see another 'I think my girlfriend is pregnant' thread in about 30 days.
     
  5. As much as you don't like condoms, you would be better off getting used to them until you are in a commited relationship where STD's are not a factor. Or you get to the point where becoming a daddy isn't a problem. I don't know how they feel from a guys side, but BC is a fact of life. It can make the difference in fathering or not fathering a child. But not fathering, I am not talking being safe, rather some STD's can render you sterile. You sound young, and are probably not thinking with the big head too much. I was young too, and sex is a very powerful feeling. But you have to think of your future fertility, and not fathering a child too young when you are not ready. Also, AIDS, it's still out there. I don't have to say anything on that, you should know.

    Think about what you want. There are concoms that are ultra thin, yet offer protection against unwanted pregnancies and STD's. It is in your best interest to be protected, you don't know if the person you are with has been with someone who has a STD and she doesn't know about it. Then you could catch it, not know, and pass it on to someone else.
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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  7. sipherx

    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    Yep, dude it looks like you guys had sex about 4 times that night, AWESOME for you. But whenever you had sex that one time without a condom, all that left over cum that didnt come out, was still in there. So as fluids were being transferred between her lubrication and the stuff inside ur pen0r u may have a problem coming up within the next month. Hopefully not. Dude a girl can get pregnant any fucking time doesnt matter if shes on the rag or just off the rag, she can get pregnant, the chances are slimmer, but that was stupid for u to put it in after u guys had already had sex earlier, no telling what may have came out while fluids were transferred, In fact leftover sperm inside ur penis could have been more concentrated meaning a more likely chance of pregnancy, Have fun mate.

    As for getting over not using a condom, have her go get a checkup and get on BC, if she has insurance sometimes they will pay for it not often though. Also if she gets on BC dont get the fuckin patch, a friend of mine is a father now because the bitch was on the patch and the patch kept coming off and on through out the day.
     
  8. tehexile

    tehexile New Member

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    ahhhhhhhhhh now im mad scurred.... thanks for the advice though :)
     
  9. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    it could be a psychological issue. you THINK you're going to go limp all the time, so it inevitably happens. try taking a few breaths, relaxing, putting the condom on, and hopefully everything will be kosher :bigthumb:

    sex = :nono: without a condom... regardless if she's on bc. you don't wanna learn the hard way!
     
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    did you ever try masturbating w/ a condom on?
     
  11. almostnormal

    almostnormal OT Supporter

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    Try a different brand, they aren't all the same. Some suck less than others.
     
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    def dude, i caouldnt make mine go down that fast 4 a million $.
     
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    kronik85 New Member

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    i love condoms. the ring around the base of my penis works like a cockring and keeps the blood trapped in there =) i'm a bit fat in that area ;) plus it's easier to cleanup after sex for the next time.


    sex w/o a condom is a great great feeling. but condoms still have their usefulness.
     
  14. danromboj

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    Work putting the condom on into your routine.

    If it's all
    go, go, go.
    Wait a minute, gotta put on a condom.
    Now, where were we?

    It can be a real mood breaker.

    Maybe have her put it on you as part of pre-festivities.
     
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    condoms = better than being a dad before you're ready.
     
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    If you had had unprotected sex already, why bother? It's still a dumb move ... but at least she said "OK". :rolleyes: That makes is better.
     
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  18. Darrin

    Darrin Eat. Sleep. Arrest People.

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    I dont like using them either, but sometimes u just gotta, and yeh, it makes me go limp sometimes too
     
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    pacent For Teh Nguyen OT Supporter

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    Preggo!
     
  20. JustinH

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    wear teh rubber, and wash you dick with handsoap and water after you take it off.

    It takes like two seconds to put a rubber on, and you are going soft? I had that happen like one time, I solved it by letting her put it on. Problem solved.
     
  21. Darrin

    Darrin Eat. Sleep. Arrest People.

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    nice idea justin, will tell her whats up next time hehe :)
     
  22. Tornado6

    Tornado6 When the wind set down in funnel form and pulled y

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    Great suggestion. Teaches your silly penis what to do. It's just getting a little confused.
     
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    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    tehexile New Member

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    masturbating with a condom is a waste of money though haha... im barely affording condoms for sex as is with the amount that we go out to dinner haha
     
  25. opie

    opie hi. OT Supporter

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