yea condoms are by far the worst thing ever. i get mad upp really really fast, but then when i throw one on, sometimes i end up going limp it makes her feel so bad, because she thinks shes turning me off, which is NOT the reason. last night we were in my car, and we went once, and it was great. since i really just started having sex, im able to get back up after one or two times (after a few minutes). i got back up a bit, she gave me a little sucky (first time ever for that ) then i put on the condom, went in, and went limp. it SUCKED i felt so bad, but it wasnt her fault in the least. then we got back to my house, and did it on the basement floor without one (she had just finished having her period, and i trusted her when she said it was OK) anyways, any ideas on how to get over this shit, its starting to drive me crazy.