condom so tight its numbing my penis?

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  1. CasualSex

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    So I just recently started having sex (it was both of our first times) and so far I have only used the Trojan Her Pleasure Spermicidal (which Ive recently read that Spermicidal does little and can actually be dangerous). But anyway, the condom feels extremely tight, and after awhile the base of my shaft, where the condom roll is, theres a red line (like when you put a very tight rubber band around your finger) and my penis gets a darker shade like theres little circulation (Im talking more coloration than the normal that comes with increased bloodflow in a normal erection). If I touch the head, I can barely feel it. Needless to say, out of the 4 times we've had sex, I havent came once :wtc:. I've given her multiples, but it just seems like with the current condom (I hope all arent like this) I just cant enjoy the physical feeling of sex, but I still enjoy the emotional connection (no matter how corny that sounds).

    Bareback is not an option. She will probably be getting on the pill soon, but she would also like to use a condom for extra security, and I respect that.


    Is this normal for a condom? Any condom suggestions? Or other advice?
     
  2. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    Try a bigger one?!?!?
     
  3. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    dude, just up the size and get bigger condoms
     
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    affende Resident 4X4 Elitest Prick

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    i have to use magnums...regular ones are tight, but not as tight as you described...try the magnumns and the magnum XLs

    if all else fails, go to condomania.com and get them custom made :bigthumb:
     
  5. N-Word-Jim

    N-Word-Jim Cure for boredom

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    You ruin every single thread you post in, you make me want to vomit.
     
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    ramin New Member

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    Don't worry about it man, the discomfort you're feeling just means you have a really small penis:barf:
     
  7. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    I can't say that I have ever had a red line or that my dick changed color, but there does get to a point where it starts cutting off blood-flow and caused me to lose the power behind my erection, sometimes losing it altogether.
    Stay away from LifeStyles, cheap brands, and specialty ones (glow-in-the-dark, flavored, etc.) Magnums or Supras are probably the way to go.
     
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  10. CasualSex

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    No, I wasnt trying to brag, in fact I dont think its that big and I hardly believe its big enough for the magnums. I just dont know if they are supposed to be that tight, if i was somehow doing something wrong or if I was just making a big deal out of nothing.
     
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    :rofl:

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    LikkleBaer New Member

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    Maybe you're putting it on wrong? That would be my first guess.

    Buy quality condoms but get the easy-on kind that are 'naturally' shaped.
     
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    A little update: I bought some trojan magnums today and tried them out (it would be embarassing if they were too big when i was about to use them for the first time!) and they seem to fit ALOT better. I never thought my penis size was anything more than average, so I was a little surprised at the fit.
     
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    well good job.. have fun :)
     
  16. sportsjunkie

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    yeah, seems like it's brought into every thread

    once is enough
     

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