college.girls Dont want to come off creepy

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I want to meet some more people in general at college,but especially girls. I pretty pathetic to say the less, since im 24 and only had one gf. Im not the best looking guy,but im not to bad either and I do notice some girls might be interested at sight,but I have no game. I actually like to make conversation with people around in my classes and what not,but at the same time I dont to make these girls feel like im hitting on them. I just want to get more of a soical life and learn to be more confortable and confident around girls. Any suggestions? My best bet would be to join clubs and waht not,but I dont have much time. I work alot and im only at school a couple nights a week,so that is out.
     
  2. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    The best way to make conversation without looking like you're hitting on someone is not to think about hitting on them while you're conversing with them. I know, easier said than done; but it's true. When you're talking to a girl, don't talk to her like "she's a girl," talk to her like she's just another person. If she continues giving signs that she's interested in getting to know you better, THEN you can start thinking like you're going to hit on her -- as in, ask her for her number, or to go grab coffee, or whatever. The key is, though, don't make her feel like you're only talking to her because you want in her pants.
     
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    Seems like you spend a lot of time working and at school... have you ever thought about spending some time improving your "game"?

    Check out some dating sites, such as:

    http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/
    http://www.fastseduction.com/asf-faq.shtml#terms
    http://www.SoSuave.net (a reasonably good advice forum)
    http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/dating_self_help.htm (A good review of the following ....)
    http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove (a personal favorite author on that site, good for long-term relationships)
    http://www.mysterymethod.com (the book "Venusian arts" is good for learning the basics on approaching.)

    I've written a few articles on my site as well, such as asking a woman out, which you may care to review:

    http://www.friendzoned.com

    So, spend a little time understanding what you need to do and go from there. It will take some time, and you will make some mistakes, but that is why you should do it someplace you don't regular. Instead, go to a bar or club that is so big it's unlikely to see the same people twice. Then go practice being social, and before you know it you'll be a lot more comfortable around people.
     
  4. low20

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    sit next to them in class....strike convo about something that has to do with class, beforehand, then u can easily switch it into non school related stuff...night class = perfect opportunity to say "wanna grab some coffee and look over the material for the test next class?" then u can skip the school shit and just talk..i had night classes before and they are prime
     
  5. quamen

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    thanks alot
     

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