FRK clit to sensitive to orgagsm

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by videogrl, Dec 31, 2004.

  1. videogrl

    videogrl Guest

    I have been having major problems coming. :wtc: Nothing is really working playing with the gspot and the clit at the same time doesn't work and its usually works great on me. He lick me all night and I might get a little one. And the other night I was on top and I squirted really hard like left a huge puddle and I barley even felt it. :wtc: I can't achieve on now unless I am playing with toys. I wonder if I am over stimulated to toys? Any ideas? And the sad thing is I really don't have sex that often. It ranges from once to maybe three times a week w/ my SO.

    Any sugestions. :sadwavey:
     
  2. mkevaldz

    mkevaldz New Member

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    same thing happens to guys, if they jerk off too much, their dick gets used to the pressure/rythem and it takes time to adjust to sex. I'd suggest laying off the toys, let your body get used to your man. good luck
     
  3. contactone

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    Maybe the toys are hitting your orgasm rythem better than your BF?:dunno: Is he licking your clit right? Guys don't always have to lap at a clit like a thirsty dog. Sometimes a light feathery touch can get a girl to orgasm.

    On the other hand, maybe there's something going on with you mentally. Have you started any new drug programs? There are drugs out there(especially anit depresants) that can block a womans ability to orgasm.
     
  4. videogrl

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    No, I'm not on any drugs just vodka LOL.
    It's not my SO but rather me. He does things right sometimes a little fast, but I let him know when he does. It is just taking me forever. God I can't believe I am admitting this but I have been thinking of girl on girl sex when him and I get it on I don't know if that has anything to do with it. (waits until he reads this)

    We have gone back to pseudo vanilla sex but that hasn't really been working either.
     
  5. borborygmus

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    yeah I have had that problem in the past. Before I had an 8-to-5 I didnt have to go to work until about noon, so I had time to surf porn and masturbate before work. then I would come home and have sex with wifey, but I was having problems cumming again when I was with her. She started to get kinda suspicious that I was masturbating without her, and I felt kinda bad about lying to her about it.

    However, now that I have a "real" job, I dont have any time at all to slap it, so I just browse porn and "save up" for fun times with wifey. I used to masturbate like 5 times a week, but I havent done it more than about once or twice a week for the past month, and the sex has been MUCH better.

    Just lay off the toys for a while and you should be ok :)
     
  6. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    There isn't any roblem using a fantasy to get yourself off.

    There are plenty of times I'm not mentally having sex with my SO when I physically am having sex with her.

    If thinking about hot girl on girl sex is what is turning your crank right now then go with it. Odds are that next week or month you'll get all hot over something else. Really don't worry about it - have sex. Don't have sex with an orgasm as an end goal, just have fun sex. If along the way your mind starts wandering then let it.
     
  7. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    :bigthumb: I agree with all of this. Fantasies, regardless of whether or not they involve your sexual partner, a man , or even a human being at all (hey, I've gotten off imagining a mannequin coming to life..it happens! lol), are all okay.

    Maybe try a little delayed gratification when youre playing. Sometimes i find that if I put off my impending orgasm over and over, that when I finally allow myself to cum, it blows me through the ceiling with its intensity.
     
  8. videogrl

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    Yeah I wasn't saying the whole fantasy thing was bad. I have really bad ADD i'll find my self getting to involved with what I am thinking then I trail off and its like oh crap he's comming and I haven't felt a damn thing. (sigh)

    Today trying to build my self up when he came home I was dressed in black lace panties and a bra w/ hooker boots. I took him into the bed room tied up, used wax and ice just had fun playing and didn't worry about me at all I didn't let him touch me. So maybe that will help.? :dunno: Whatever it was it was fun.
     

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