my now ex boyfriend and i broke up a little less than a month ago, and i've been utilizing my new singledom to spend more time with friends and focus on myself blah blah blah in addition to hanging out with new guys. one guy in particular is really starting to creep me out. i met him while i was with a friend and he invited me to a concert, so i took my friend along. right before the concert i lost my wallet, and instead of letting my friend pay, he paid for BOTH of us. including all of our drinks for the night and a meal afterwards. i thought he was really cool and smart, until we were alone together, when he started being weird. he lives down south, near san diego. he had nowhere to stay the night of the concert, so i told him he could crash on my couch. he tried his hardest to stay in my bed but i kicked him out and sent him to the couch. the next morning he kept coming in my room really early and asking me all these questions which i don't remember since i was pretty much in a coma. when i finally woke up, he was gone and my ENTIRE apartment was clean. SPOTLESS. even my bedroom... which i had been sleeping in. like the trash in my bathroom was gone, everything was put in drawers, my dirty clothes were separated in piles in front of the washer and dryer. now he won't stop texting me. and not just a little texting, BIG TIME TEXTING. with weird questions and 3 page long ones rambling about how much he likes me etc, and we've only hung out ONCE. so i finally told him i was "over my texting limit" which i wasn't, and then he offered to pay for my phone bill. and the texting never stopped. i've tried to be as straightforward as possible, but he just won't get it. i've even had guys answer the phone when he's called. he's scaring me kind of. WHAT SHOULD I DOOOOOOO VAG??!