clingy clingy clingy!

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by boxen, Jan 22, 2009.

  1. boxen

    boxen New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    10,286
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, California
    my now ex boyfriend and i broke up a little less than a month ago, and i've been utilizing my new singledom to spend more time with friends and focus on myself blah blah blah in addition to hanging out with new guys.

    one guy in particular is really starting to creep me out. i met him while i was with a friend and he invited me to a concert, so i took my friend along. right before the concert i lost my wallet, and instead of letting my friend pay, he paid for BOTH of us. including all of our drinks for the night and a meal afterwards. i thought he was really cool and smart, until we were alone together, when he started being weird. he lives down south, near san diego. he had nowhere to stay the night of the concert, so i told him he could crash on my couch. he tried his hardest to stay in my bed but i kicked him out and sent him to the couch. the next morning he kept coming in my room really early and asking me all these questions which i don't remember since i was pretty much in a coma. when i finally woke up, he was gone and my ENTIRE apartment was clean. SPOTLESS. even my bedroom... which i had been sleeping in. like the trash in my bathroom was gone, everything was put in drawers, my dirty clothes were separated in piles in front of the washer and dryer. :ugh:

    now he won't stop texting me. and not just a little texting, BIG TIME TEXTING. with weird questions and 3 page long ones rambling about how much he likes me etc, and we've only hung out ONCE. so i finally told him i was "over my texting limit" which i wasn't, and then he offered to pay for my phone bill. and the texting never stopped. i've tried to be as straightforward as possible, but he just won't get it. i've even had guys answer the phone when he's called.

    he's scaring me kind of. WHAT SHOULD I DOOOOOOO VAG??! :noes:
     
  2. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

    Joined:
    May 5, 2002
    Messages:
    57,466
    Likes Received:
    7
    Location:
    the streets
    guys, there's a lot of lessons to be learned from this
     
  3. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

    Joined:
    Nov 18, 2007
    Messages:
    3,909
    Likes Received:
    0
    get a temp restraining order on him?
     
  4. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2005
    Messages:
    13,722
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    at your mom's house. be back later.
    Dude, that would scare the shit out of me. I've had creeporz like that before- when they just wouldn't listen when I told them I wasn't interested, I ignored and avoided them until they left me alone.
     
  5. lauren

    lauren Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2005
    Messages:
    38,880
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Palo Alto, CA
    :hsugh:

    have you ever gone through the process before? takes a little bit more than some clean laundry and txt msgs.



    "hey, you need to stop texting me so much ( i dont have time for this, it's distracting/annoying etc)"
     
  6. GTLifter

    GTLifter Banned

    Joined:
    Feb 28, 2005
    Messages:
    62,453
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Durty Durty ATL Niggah
    :rofl::rofl::rofl: @ him cleaning your place. Doesn't he know that's womans work? :hsugh:
     
  7. boxen

    boxen New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    10,286
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, California
    :rofl: seriously. i don't have the time NOR the energy to go through something like that. it's just mind blowing to me how he isn't getting the picture. for example, he texted me this morning asking me if i wanted to go to disneyland with him.

    me: no
    him: why not? it'll be so much fun!
    me: i'm a full time student and i'm poor.
    him: i'll pay for your ticket! you aren't in school on the weekends!
    me: no thanks, i'm really not interested.
    him: if it's about gas, i'll pay for your gas. or i could just come pick you up.

    then 30 mins after no reply from me

    him: howcome some lucky guy hasn't snatched you up yet?
    me: because i want to be single.
    him: i'll change that!
    me: you're creeping me out, dude.
    him: cmon let's go to disneyland. i might be coming to santa barbara this weekend!

    WHAT THE FUCK.
     
  8. boxen

    boxen New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    10,286
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, California
    if i don't respond he texts even more, and then starts calling.
     
  9. tehganj

    tehganj oh, hi.

    Joined:
    Dec 3, 2007
    Messages:
    3,123
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    LA, Cali
    "look, you're starting to creep me out... leave me alone or i will have to let my brother know you're making me feel uncomfortable/unsafe and he's very overprotective of me."
     
  10. dumbaznboy

    dumbaznboy New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 25, 2006
    Messages:
    616
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    California
    persistent little bugger. creepy mother f***er
     
  11. boxen

    boxen New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    10,286
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, California
    i already pulled that one. and on top of it all, my brother is an army ranger. which should put the fear of god into creepasaurus, but he just wooooooooon't stooooooooooop. is there any way you can call your service provider and have a number blocked?
     
  12. lauren

    lauren Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2005
    Messages:
    38,880
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Palo Alto, CA
    i know you may think i'm just playing hard to get, or your persistence is endearing, but really, i'm not interested, and you really need to lay off. leave me alone. it's not cute, it's harassment.
     
  13. fray

    fray New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2006
    Messages:
    5,282
    Likes Received:
    0
    You need to be totally clear that you don't like what he's doing and will never date him.
     
  14. GTLifter

    GTLifter Banned

    Joined:
    Feb 28, 2005
    Messages:
    62,453
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Durty Durty ATL Niggah
    tell him you used to be a guy and just had the final surgery for your sex change :dunno:
     
  15. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Oct 11, 2002
    Messages:
    59,942
    Likes Received:
    15
    Location:
    Go Dodger Blue!
    "I'm not attracted to you. I'm not interested."
     
  16. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

    Joined:
    Nov 18, 2007
    Messages:
    3,909
    Likes Received:
    0
    Yes. and I actually used to work at a place that helped people file those.
     
  17. boxen

    boxen New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    10,286
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, California
    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  18. Bush77

    Bush77 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 23, 2004
    Messages:
    4,814
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Toronto, Canada
  19. boxen

    boxen New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    10,286
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, California
    this is a good one.
     
  20. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2005
    Messages:
    13,722
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    at your mom's house. be back later.
    Say that. Exactly.
     
  21. lauren

    lauren Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2005
    Messages:
    38,880
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Palo Alto, CA

    oh, the sheriff's office or county court ? legal services? :coold:


    then you'd know they are really only granted in regards to people you are related to, or are dating/have dated? not joe blow you met once.
     
  22. jimmyjoe

    jimmyjoe Across 110th Street, You can find it all in the st

    Joined:
    Aug 12, 2008
    Messages:
    4,360
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    AVL, NC
    haha.... you must be the real deal, got any pictures of yourself to show us!

    I would change my cell number, just text your new number to all your contacts that you want to have this new number, if he comes to your house, don't let him in, call the COPS!
     
  23. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

    Joined:
    Nov 3, 2001
    Messages:
    18,397
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    The Bay, California
    Post his phone number in the main.
     
  24. boxen

    boxen New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Messages:
    10,286
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, California
    there's a pic in my profile. i have the glasses.
     
  25. giz

    giz Active Member

    Joined:
    Nov 25, 2004
    Messages:
    15,634
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    salt lake
    yes :bowdown:

    I would call your service provider and ask if you can have the number blocked
     

Share This Page