Cliffs: Be a dick

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  1. Falconer

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    breaking news
     
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    you can be nice if you are not too much nicer then people deserve and have hella swagger
     
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    This is new.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Everyone is a dick in their own way. I'm just comfortable with myself and so my dick comes out naturally.












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    i refuse to change my personality to get girls.

    if they dont like me for who i am ill move on to the next. or, if need be, be happy on my own.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    And that, my friend, is the right kind of dick.
     
  8. JohnJohnJohnson

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    hypothetically speaking, could you be happy without ever touching an attractive girl?

    for the record, "be a dick" never worked for me as well as being awesome.

    still better than "just be yourself" and "just be confident" which are denotationally void.
     
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    let me rephrase myself.

    i assume the link, i dont have access, is about holding the interest of a girl...?

    if so... i can be myself. have a sexual RS w. girls... and then i suppose bc im not a dick they lose interest.

    although i would be alone (in the sense of being single) i would not be void of the female touch.
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

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    the idea is to create interest by being a dick, not to maintain it.

    this was written by a guy, you think he was interested in relationships? lol. obviously it's about hooking up for the first time, not keeping her around.

    having lovers is not being alone by my definition. at all. thanks for clarifying.
     
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    We've said it in the Vag before... you can be nice just have a backbone. Women don't respect guys with no backbones.
     
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    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :bowdown: :h5:

    I've had chicks I was dating tell me over and over how awesome I am. It's probably the best compliment there is.
     
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    "awesome" and "badass" are my favorites. My last SO used to tell me I was badass all the time..
     
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    the vag ruined the word awesome for me. I'm so annoyed by it now :rofl:
     
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    :rofl:

    This is the very kind of cliffs I hate when it comes to pick-up. Or, 'pick-up gone wrong' distinction I was trying to make. For many people, it just turns them into giant assholes, and not in the good way or the way I think PUA ever even intended.
     
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    people do go overboard. the smart ones notice it's not working and calibrate themselves.
     
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    I DID try being an asshole at one point in my life in order to do better attracting girls. For a few months. As it happens, this was before the PUA stuff and I was shit out of ideas. edit: saying fewer nice things, more offensive things, expressing less empathy, etc.

    It neither made things worse nor better.
     
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  20. Falconer

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    Watch more How I Met Your Mother :bigthumb:
     
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    never seen it, but I've been meaning to check it out.
     
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    The nice guy vs. dick dichotomy is hilarious to me. I've always thought that calling it "being a dick" or an asshole or whatever else was just socially retarded guys misinterpreting the behavior of guys who aren't pushovers.

    Just my 2 cent.
     
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    there is a difference between not being a pushover and a person that goes out of his way to put other people down.
     
  24. wolfskymoon

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    some girls like pushovers. I've liked people in the past for their flaws, actually I am addicted to people with flaws. Like girls with curly hair for example, they look really decent and then one day you see them with straight hair and it's a whole different experience. It's like you are unintentionally cheering them on inside your heart.
     
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    its unfortunate that not a single one of these girls liked you back :sad2:
     

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