SRS Christians aren’t perfect people v.WIFE PICS (one last time)

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  1. GrassHopper

    GrassHopper Happiest motherf***er you're EVER gonna meet OT Supporter

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    My wife and I are going through a divorce. When I met her, I knew there was something special about her. She was a pastor’s kid and didn’t seem to be terribly wild or terribly conservative (that’s rare, if you didn’t know). I grew to love her and realize that I wanted to spend my life with her. Her life goal is to become an opera singer and being the husband of an opera singer sounded pretty damn cool. She inspired me to go back to school and get my degree. I chose a versatile degree that would allow me to work in any city in any country her career would take her. I loved her so much.

    We were married in 2003. Two full time students/full time workers, and let’s just say, when people tell you “marriage is difficult” they aren’t kidding no matter what tone they say it. We had our fights and fusses. We’re both stubborn assholes and she’s extremely competitive. It’s not enough for me to stop arguing with her, she has to KNOW that I KNOW she was right. I ended up starting to fight like she fought, and she started to internalize her feelings like I did. It was a bad mix brewing.


    This is going to be a long thread, so you're getting it in bits and pieces. To be continued...

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  2. the Rosswog

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    shouldnt this be in the asylum?
     
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    so is she see anyone?
     
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  6. GrassHopper

    GrassHopper Happiest motherf***er you're EVER gonna meet OT Supporter

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    During one of our low points and during an argument, she asked if she made me miserable. I said “I don’t know, maybe” but I didn’t mean it. I was miserable at the moment, but not in life. She asked if I wanted to divorce and I said “Probably.” That was a year ago. She took those two things I said, when I didn’t mean them, and built a protective wall between herself and me.

    Over the last year, our disagreements started getting more frequent and pettier. I felt the distance from her, but thought it was in my head. I would ask her how she felt and she would tell me she loved me still.


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    btw, shes hot, if you two are splitting, send her my way
     
  8. GrassHopper

    GrassHopper Happiest motherf***er you're EVER gonna meet OT Supporter

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    We're getting there ;)
     
  9. Balddong

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    so where is the nudes
     
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    Nudes?
     
  11. GrassHopper

    GrassHopper Happiest motherf***er you're EVER gonna meet OT Supporter

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    On September 8th, I came home from class early. I usually get home at 10:00 but told her I had a test and would probably be home before then. At 8:30, she wasn’t home and hadn’t called me since 2:30 that afternoon. I was a little concerned, but thought she might be at a friend’s house or my parents. I made some phone calls and couldn’t track her down. Deciding that she must be out with the band directors she teaches with, I settled in for some hardcore PSP time. I called a few times, never getting an answer and finally decided to go looking at 11:30.

    I had her picture and was on my way to the nearest emergency room to see if she had come through when I called again and she picked up. :eek3: She didn’t have any idea why I was so worried about her and said she had gone out with the band directors she works with. That made sense and was something I thought might have happened.

    When she got home, after about an hour and me finally having to ask some direct questions, she told me she had only been out with one band director, he had bought her drinks, and she had left her phone in the car because she knew I would be wondering about her. I let it go that night, but I knew what was going on.


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    I have a feeling revenge pics are on the way..


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    :hug: in advance :( sorry man
     
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    That sucks man. :(
     
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    chick is pretty hot
     
  16. you know me

    you know me OT where the douchbags play

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    in for clusterfuck and gangbang
     
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    why don't one of you in the relationship grow the hell up and start learning to compromise.....
     
  19. GrassHopper

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    This guy that she had been out with “dates” UNT singers. He’s slept with almost all my wife’s friends…even the nasty skank who had the bad genital wart outbreak. He’s 35, 11 years older than my wife. He used to speak to me at every football game and I would have considered him a friend. I had given him an open invitation to come watch the Cowboys any time.

    I asked my wife that Saturday if she liked him. Her response was “What kind of question is that??” I let it go and went to the other room. About 5 minutes later, she appeared in the doorway and said “Yeah, I do kind of like Russ.” She was heading out to work at that moment so I had the night to process what I had just been given. I. Got. Hammered. :beer: (thanks, skez, for chatting with me that night).


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    Are you going to move in with your auntie and uncle in Bel-air?
     
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    less talk more stab
     
  22. Elfling

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    Doesn't always work that way :dunno:
     
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    IFL :hs:

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    It'll be more fun here.
     
  25. Urinal Mint

    Urinal Mint bourbon afficionado

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    Sorry that your marriage didn't work out, man. :hug:

    I've had 2 friends go through divorce in the past 2 years... it's tough, but you'll be OK.
     

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