chicks who play hard to get

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  1. poopies4u

    poopies4u Active Member

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    Been seeing this girl for about a month now and she's still playing hard to get... How and the hell am I suppose to get over this hump and get into a serious relationship with her?
     
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    Tell her that you dont want the BS, and ask if she is in it for a serious relaitonship or for games?

    ...seems straitforward and easy.
     
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    ^^^ :werd:

    Don't put up with bullshit- it seems to me she's only in it to make you chase her around and boost her confidence.
     
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    How bout not showing any interest in her anymore, and let her come to you.
     
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    that's what I'm trying to do now but it's hard :hs:
     
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    dont do that, playing games is just foolish.

    Why cant you just be honest with her and tell her honestly how you feel about it all? What will playing games achieve?
     
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    told her a few weeks ago that I liked her and she said that she liked me back but that I was too shy and said it was okay for us to take things slow. It just seems like it's going too slow and I don't know what my next step is. She just went away for the weekend to visit her guy friend who is inlove with her and I haven't talked to her since thursday
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Well call her up then? Why not sit her down and explain that things are going TOO slow now? There is nothing wrong, especially in the beginning of a realtionship, to change up pace alot until you find what is good for both parties involved.
     
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    maybe she doesnt want to go out with you? thought a guy was playing 'hard to get' turns out hes just not interested in me like that....
     
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    well I call her to go out and she calls me to go out... if she didn't want to go out with me I think she would have cut it loose a long time ago
     
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    I called her saturday night when I was drunk but she didn't answer and didn't call me back yet... My sister told me to hang low and wait for her to call but I'm not sure what to do
     
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    i go out with guys im not interested in sexually, and they go out with be. frienship perhaps?

    oh yeah, OT doesnt belive in that. :dunno:

    edit: tell her the truth. better than this ambiguity garbage. good luck.
     
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    i would just tell her the truth... tell her that you're interested, and you'd love to move things further in the relationship. ask her if she's in or out :dunno:

    oh, and if she doesn't know what she wants, move on... believe me, you haven't got the time!
     
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    Bingo.

    Don't tell her she's playing games though.

    Other fish in the sea. She'll be missing out.
     
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    sometimes we (guys) like to think they (girls) are playing hard to get, so things they do seem like all part of a game - when really, it is them giving us signs that they are not interested in you sexually.

    to solve this possible missunderstanding, be honest and then you will get the straight answer u are looking for... some girls are like that, others will straight-up let you know how they feel...(we like that type)
     
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    if both sides are playing games the result will be a stalemate
     

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