Chicks admiring my oh so hot boyfriend

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  1. Camelot

    Camelot New Member

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    Could someone please tell me why my otherwise wonderful boyfriend insists on telling me about every time some girl checks him out? The first couple of times I was kinda jealous, and I thought, oh, how cute he is being honest, however, now I am just tired of it, I really don't care to hear it. ...and yet, every damn day...some new chick supposedly wants him. Apparently they all have "that look". What the hell is this about and how do I deal with it?
     
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    Take it as a compliment, he's trying to make sure you know you have an in-demand commodity :)
    he's just trying to impress you.
     
  3. Camelot

    Camelot New Member

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    I was impressed the first...ohhh 10 times but now it's an almost daily occurrence. I am basically past impressed, past jealous, past anything, I just want it to end! I wouldn't tell him of anyone checking me out, that's just weird:)
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If you have any respect for yourself you will tell him it's very rude of him to keep saying that constantly. Say you know he's hot, but you don't have to be reminded other women feel the same as if you have to worry.

    Open your mouth and tell him how it makes you feel, just like when I told you to ask him out.
     
  5. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    god knows. what an odd thing to do
     
  6. MattThom01

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    tell him to stop and that it makes you uncomfortable.

    If he keeps doing it, dump his ass. No point in being with someone who is disrespectful.
     
  7. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    you, suggesting the OP dump somebody?
     
  8. MattThom01

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    worst case. I'm sure if she just says something to him, he'll stop
     
  9. althepirate

    althepirate Talk nerdy to me.

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    Tell him to stop. Period. End of story. If he doesn't, then he's either [a] having major security issues or not listening in which is a bad sign for the relationship in general. If it continues, you need to sit down and have a serious talk about it.
     
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    sounds like your jealous and your relationship isnt a secure or healthy one should be. Basically you need to communicate more with him to secure and make your relationship healthy.
     
  11. MattThom01

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    i don't see it as a jealousy thing...hell, it's ok for the guy to think it's a great thing in his head, but it's not something a gf really wants to hear.
     
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    he's in teh closet
     
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    My ex used to do that all the time.. I always just smiled and nodded to myself, but really I thought "look you're not much of a catch so I know guys aren't checking you out".. I've met a lot of girls who really aren't attractive at all who think that they're constantly being checked out. The best thing to do is be honest with them.

    If the person is attractive just tell them congratulations and you're tired of hearing it.

    If they're not attractive, tell them that too.
     
  14. Camelot

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    No, I don't think so, in fact I really don't give a rat's ass. I think he does it to show off and I have been letting him because I used to think it was cute that he'd try to make me jealous. I posted here because I wasn't sure if I was exaggerating it but I'm glad to see others don't see it as OK either. I'll just have to set him straight:hsugh:
     
  15. Camelot

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    Oh, he's attractive alright-to my eyes. The thing is he hasn't had a girlfriend in something like a year, and finally he gets one (me) and now he notices girls giving him googly eyes all over the place and he feels the need to tell me all about it:nono:
     
  16. Camelot

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    I have respect for myself but I didn't see this as a big deal until recently. I'll have to deal with it, I just wish I didn't have to. I was just wondering what could be going through his mind when he does this. :)
     
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    i think i'm guilty of bringing it up occasionally to the girls i'm with. Im not sure really why i do it, aside from just an urge that makes me say it.... maybe to make it known that i'm wanted and that she's lucky.. who knows.
     
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    just say "cool story hansel" every time he says is and then immediately start talking about something else. he'll get the hint.
     
  19. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    or cool story katie holmes
     
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    +1
     
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    He's just insecure. Tell him to cut it out or your leaving.
     
  22. Camelot

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    That's what it thought, too. Will do that as soon as the opportunity arises-which should be the next time I see him.
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

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    :werd: :rofl:
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Don't bring it up until/if he says it again. Just say "you know what? I know you are hot and a great catch, but it's really unnecessary for you to tell me about all these other women who think so as if I have something to worry about."

    Telling him out of the blue will just confuse him.
     
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    I had this problem with my gf the first few months we were dating. I didn't like it, but i kept it to myself for a while. Afterwards I grew tired of it and simply said to her: "I caught both of your sisters eying me up on more than one occasion" the last time she pulled that shit. Needless to say, that was the end of that childish crap from her.

    Do onto others...
     

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