Cheating

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  1. merrillk192

    merrillk192 New Member

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    Is porn cheating?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Assuming you're a guy :rofl:
     
  5. merrillk192

    merrillk192 New Member

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    either way
     
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    :hsugh: depends on your definition of cheating, and what you and your partner decide is off limits.
     
  7. otherlank

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    I would say no, but Lauren is right. Really it depends on your partner's views.
     
  8. Falconer

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    Let's be honest tho, if you're a dude, and your gf tells you not to look at porn, aren't you gonna anyway? I'm not advocating being deceitful or anything, but come on, it's porn. If you don't see your gf for like a week... hello, porno sites.

    MAYBE you could not look at porn, but I had a friend whose gf told him not to masturbate. He was like "sure... ok." :ugh: :wackit:
     
  9. otherlank

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    My last gf didn't care, but she turned me on in such a way that no one else could.

    Instead of wacking it to some random porn, I could do it to the video she made for me. :naughty:
     
  10. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    See, THAT is going too far. If I had a girlfriend tell me not to look at porn I'd just look at her and say "fine... I won't look at porn. Now strip while I get my camera -- we're making me some porn of YOU for me to use, then."
     
  11. HuskiRuski

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    that's what i did with me ex. she was cool with it, and that's what i used to jack off too the majority of the time.
     
  12. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    I define cheating to be intimate contact with someone who is not your SO. This includes hand holding, kissing, intercourse, oral sex and in extreme cases, heavy flirting. Porn includes none of those things so I'd say no.
     
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    Hell no porn isn't cheating!!!
     
  14. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    I don't think it is but then it all depends on what is set for limits like everyone else said. But to be honest I dont think it such be counted as cheating.
     
  15. merrillk192

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    That makes sense. :)
     
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    I define cheating as "anything you would NOT do when your partner was around."

    Personally, I think home-made porn is the best, and so does my woman.
     
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    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Depends on what type of porn it is...If its porn from a girl on the internets that he has been talking to or something then thats wrong....

    if its Jenna Jameson porn its different...
     
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    i dont think so, heck i watch porn with my SO!

    unless its someone you know like pumpkin princess said then yes its wrong but i wouldnt consider "cheating" just dont do it!
     
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    I guess if you're lying to your partner about it.


    In my eyes, cheating is doing anything you wouldn't do infront of your partner or wouldn't want your partner to know about.
     
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    For me, watching porn is certainly NOT cheating. But some people are weird about petty things like that :dunno:
     
  21. MissKitty

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    Depends if your partner has asked you not to and you still do
     
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    I don't think I could take such a request seriously :rofl:
     
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    has nothing to do with what your partner ask you to do, it depends on your response. If you don't say you won't do it, its not cheating when you do.
     
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    yeah, i definitely would laugh in a girls face for that one.
     
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    They would probably have boring, uptight, 'eww that's disgusting' sex :mamoru:
     

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