LGBT Cheating

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Elfling, Sep 28, 2006.

  1. Elfling

    Elfling New Member

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    And beg pardon if it's a repost, I only randomly come in here :wiggle:

    Do you think there's a higher percentage of cheaters in hetero vs. homo/bi relationships? I was just mulling over stuff the other day. Most of the straight men I've dated have cheated. The bi guys and the girls- no issues.

    Now, of course, some of this may pertain to the fact that the non-pure-hetero relationships were by default a wee bit more open; more experimentation in general, less uptight, less traditional roles etc.
     
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    A very wise person once told me that you are only as faithful as your options.
     
  3. Navvik

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    i've never cheated
     
  4. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I have...:o
     
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    Never would have guessed that :mamoru:
     
  6. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Seriously, I've only cheated once...

    Matt still doesn't know, and I've never before documented it on OT.
     
  7. Navvik

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    until now:mamoru:
     
  8. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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  9. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Matt found my fondness for OT strange. As a Doctor (*cough*Medical Intern*cough*), he often said that he had too much going on in the real world, to then try to dive into a bunch of eProblems. LOL, back when I was dating Matt, there was a lot of self-loathing Closeteers...

    So, I doubt that he has joined OT to lurkingly eStalk my CoCo sexcapades.

    Unless you were referring to the 'never posted on OT' thing instead of the 'Matt doesn't know' thing, in which case...bite me, and like it.
    ;)
     
  10. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I almost wrote about it back when Sam explained his reasons in the other Cheating thread. I seriously regret the way the situation went down, but that whole chapter of my life was complicated. A lot happened at once, and I learned a lot.

    Highest amongst those, that I actually am boifriend material VERSUS just being a great person to fuck. Too bad we just drifted off in different directions.
     
  11. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...our situations were very different.

    I've let everyone know that I'm high attention, high affection, and high sex. You simply cannot lock me down in a committed relationship for over a year, put a ring on my finger, and then start to slack off in all three areas.

    What did he think we were, str8?

    But I gave him the benefit of the doubt, completely took all of the blame for the disintegration of the relationship (without ever admitting to the infidelity, so salvaging his heart to a degree). And promised that when both of our lives a lil less complicated, we will re-address a potential 'us'.
     

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