Cheating and revenge

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  1. TheChica504

    TheChica504 New Member

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    I've been curious what the Vag thinks about getting back at a cheating SO. Anger can really create some irrational thoughts and behaviors. How many of you have crossed the line and actually gotten revenge, or how far would you take it if you were cheated on?

    I regret not having enough parting anger/final words, but I don't think I could ever act on it. There's a fine line between being the bigger person and walking away or taking a sharpie to their car covering it with "I'm a cheating asshole".
     
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    Revenge is good but you have to come up with something better than vandalism or just straight sexual revenge...you have to make them feel bad about it!
     
  3. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    What goes around comes around, you don't personally need to ruin any of their shit to make sure they get what's coming to them ;).
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I don't ever let my anger get the best of me like that. In my opinion no good can come from revenge, but many negative things can result both for you and others. Find healthier outlets for your emotions.
     
  5. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    There's no point in revenge against a cheater. It's not like they'll learn anything from it, they'll just cheat again. If you think you can change them or stop them from it, you're fooling yourself.
     
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    I've already showed my GF the shotgun I'll use if she cheats. Police issue riot 12gauge.
     
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    I have had it happen. I was pissed. I just broke up with them and moved on. They're an idiot if they are going to cheat on me. I'm a fucking awesome girlfriend. It's not worth my time/effort to plot a revenge on them. They'll get whats coming to them once they contract some sort of std or aids.
     
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    so you'd kill her/the guy if she cheated?
    empty threat is empty.
     
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    yea...kill both...seems like a good plan to me...
     
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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    got a pickup and access to 400+ acres outside the city too...
     
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    No need for the pick up, we got a 70s Continental with the eyetalian trunk.
     
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    More discreet.
     
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    Fuck, wasnt thinking, forgot we were down souf'
     
  17. antihero

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    Getting revenge is for immature hot headed fools. Nothing you can do will hurt them as much as never letting them get to you ever again.

    "Revenge" just makes you look like a crazy asshole who is still obsessed with someone who you should think is not worth your time or energy. It makes you look pathetic. You look like the bad one, no matter what he did to "deserve" it.
     
  18. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    :eek3: violence

    :rofl: std's

    :hsugh: wait, are people serious?


    Just go out and fuck someone new (make sure you dump the cheater).:wavey:
     
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    The point of getting revenge isnt to teach them anything, its to make them feel bad, which in turn makes you feel a little bit better. Which is a good thing, as long as you dont do anything stupid to get that revenge.
     
  20. BoomBoomBoy

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    I've been fortunate in my life to not be a vengeful person. Life is too short.
     
  21. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Making someone else feel bad doesn't make me feel better. In fact, in my experience feeding internal negativity only seems to make one feel worse overall.
     
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    2nded.
     
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    Maybe certain people feel the way you do, probably the same people who are like, save the dolphins they are beautiful animals! but fuck the tunas they taste good...

    Theres a reason people lust for revenge...the problem is it is rarely executed in the right manner, thats why people sometimes feel remorse after. 'A taste of their own medicine' works pretty well.

    Addition: of course youre both right to an extent im just trying to convey that not all forms of revenge or making someone feel bad is that terrible, as in making them feel bad directly for what they have done wrong to you through indirect and not harsh means...
     
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  24. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I think the concept of getting revenge on an ex by living a happy, healthy, fulfilling life is the best of both worlds.
     
  25. calisteph6

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    no, it's dumb. It's immature and if you have mutual friends you're just going to look like an idiot and possible lose friends over it and make the cheater look 'better.'
     

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