cheated on gf with a 10/10

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  1. Commander Riker

    Commander Riker Starfleets Finest

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    cliffs: i used to like this girl and she liked me..but we never took off because of lack of communication and what not..

    i started dating my current gf right after i gave up on the first girl, and 4 yrs later i end up fucking the girl i gave up on .


    my gf doesn't know, i feel horrible for doing it, and i dont know if i should just keep it to myself forever or tell her.

    i plan on marrying this girl so i have a feeling that if i tell her it will be done.

    the 10/10 girl was a great fuck but right after i busted i felt disgusted for doing it.

    what do i do, vag?
     
  2. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    Would she be able to find out if you don't tell her? If not, don't tell her.
     
  3. THoC

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    ummm... since you want to marry this girl.... and i HATE to say this..... keep it to yourself.

    if she has ANY respect for herself, telling her would lead to a break up bc she will now know she can do better than you.
     
  4. Commander Riker

    Commander Riker Starfleets Finest

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    im 99% sure she wouldn't find out. but i'll have to live with the guilt silently forever :wtc:
     
  5. THoC

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    oh noooo! i feel really bad for you bro.
     
  6. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    10's are only in music videos
     
  8. THoC

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    stop questioning him and feel bad for him. he now must hold the guilt!
     
  9. john law

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    I wasn't questioning him. I know for a fact she wasn't a ten. She may have been hot, but she wasn't a 10.
     
  10. SunnyDee

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    How about you man up and tell your gf because she deserves to know so she can dump your ass and find a guy who will treat her right?
     
  13. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    don't blink.
    just answer this:
    are you telling her because you don't want to have a relationship without complete trust. knowing you wronged her?
    or are you telling her to alleviate yourself of the guilt? because that's a pretty selfish reason to tell the truth, you know?
     
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    you tell her so she can go into her marriage knowing who you really are.
     
  15. THoC

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    i see where you are going with this..... but its a lame spin on why someone should not tell the truth.
     
  16. peoplescar

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    I hate this thread.... :hs:
     
  17. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I'll probably get flamed for this but I don't think you tell her. I mean, why? So you don't have to live with the guilt but in turn it just fucks with her head and her heart? I don't see how that's anything but selfish and unkind. What purpose will it serve to tell her besides hurt her? Regardless of her then "knowing the truth" in the end all it does hurt her more. Don't do that shit to her.

    Be a man. Deal with your shit. Keep your gob shut and eat your guilt.

    Either break up with your girl or break it off with your 10 and recommit yourself to your relationship. That's my vote anyhow.
     
  18. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    why? Have you cheated before? :hsd:
     
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    you post pictures of said 10/10 so we can decide if she was worthy. after that we will tell you what is right.
     
  20. THoC

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    if you were cheated on.... would you prefer for the guy to say:

    a. nothing and stay with you.
    b. break it off w.o telling you why.
    c. tell you the truth so you can make an educated decision on what to do.
     
  21. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Clearly A or B. Otherwise I wouldn't have made the post I just did.
     
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    thought you may be separating your feelings bc this is not happening to you.

    i find your opinion....... to put it politely..... interesting.
     
  23. Rellik

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    hey man, ur getting married, your life is over... be happy you fucked a 10 before you went out... lol, anyone else find it funny that the thread starter had to include a description of the girls physical appearance..? i guess it would be diff if it was some ugly chick
     
  24. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl: well I appreciate you being kind about it.

    Really I just don't see the point. He knows that if he tells her she's going to leave him so it's not like he's waiting to hear her say she forgives him and they should stay together. He's only planning on telling her so he can lessen the burden of his guilt. Seems selfish to me.

    I think some things are better left unsaid.

    I'm not advocating that he continues on with his affair while he's dating his girl, like I said:

     
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    oh i gave same advice to him. do not tell.

    i just find it odd that, you, as the person on the receiving end, would not want to know.

    ignorance is bliss?
     

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