Chatterbox Girl

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  1. EPD Hater

    EPD Hater New Member

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    There's this girl that I've started to date. I've known her for years, but we started to go out just recently. I've always known her to be popular and a chatterbox--always has something to say in the middle of my stories, or whatever. In fact, last night it took me 20 minutes to tell her something because everytime I said something, it reminded her of something she just had to tell me right then-and-there.

    Anyhow, are there any sure-fire SERIOUS ways of trying to get her to slow or calm down? Could it be one of those things that somebody could never change?

    Also....do these girls talk during sex?:noes:
    Any experiences with these types?
     
  2. kilamasta

    kilamasta New Member

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    Various approches :

    1- Tell her right away to stop interrupting you. ( smile )
    2- Look away when she talks and she will ask : "what is it? listen to me...."
    then goto 1.
     
  3. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    i had that same experience with a girl last nite over the telephone...I couldn't get a word in with the girl. She just kept going on and on....I was like wow, she talks a lot. I wanted to tell her but then I think that would killed her conversation and her talking and stuff.
     
  4. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    tell her to calm down and that she needs to stop interrupting you (in a nice way of course)

    i'm the total opposite, I don't have much to say :mamoru:
     
  5. Tiberium

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    I prefer the chatterboxes because it's a lot easier to tell if they're interested or not. I was on a date with a girl who didn't say much so I decided not to waste my time with her. Later, I discovered that she was just shy/nervous. She was upset with me for a few weeks.:mamoru:
     
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    yeah :rofl: ...I'm usually a bit shy when first meeting people :mamoru:
     
  7. EPD Hater

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    So she could be interested? I haven't dated in a while as I was in a lenghty relationship up until a few months ago. And she kept on touching me with her hand as she was talking. But she could do that with everyone she talks to.
     
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    ^ If she's touching you then it's definitely a sign that she's not dis-interested. Try moving in close and playing with and touching her hair/neck. If she's gives a positive response then go in for a kiss.
     
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    I am not a shy person unless I just met someone. When I first meet someone I am shy and dont talk much because I really dont know what to talk about. And I would think being on a date while not knowing a person that well would make me even more shy sense I would be nervous. If she got upset with you I would think she liked you and wanted to get to know you.
     
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    That'll shut her up..., or open up a floodgate of verbage, just on a more interesting subject.:bigthumb:
     
  11. Schproda

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    She may be excited to be there. People do that. I've had to stop talking and just look at them until they stop talking and when they did finallly, I'd say "can I speak now"?
     
  12. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    Her touching you is Definately a positive sign. I say make a move.


     
  13. EPD Hater

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    ^ Well, that's how I interpreted them, so at the end of the night, I wanted to kiss her, but didn't want to take the risk of mis-interpreting her friendly signals. So we hugged three (!) times, during which I held her tightly and kissed her on the cheek, and she reciprocated.

    Before all this though, she did mention the one time we went out on a date and was surprised that I didn't kiss her then (this was in 2003). So I hope she doesn't think I'm not interested. I think I flirted with her big time.
     
  14. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    Well, You hugged 3 times, kissed her on the cheek, she kissed you back on the cheek and she said she was surpised you didn't kiss her back in the day....DAMN, man...i think she is definately into you and she would have definately been into a REAL kiss. She's prolly thinking right now that maybe you want to take it easy...Next date tho, definately kiss her!!


     
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    :ugh:

    :ugh: , she couldnt have made it anymore obvious to you

    and the way you acted probably made her think you were disinterested
     
  16. Abomb

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    you are just gonna have to quit being a pussy and get over the fear of rejection is all.
     
  17. EPD Hater

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    Obvious that she was interested? I just didn't think I should have kissed her on the mouth that night and wanted to save it for a possible later date if things went further.
     
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    if you keep saving things for the next date, it is going to come off that you are not confident in your actions.
     
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    Next time you are trying to get a word in and find you can't, forcibly interrupt her and say, completely sincerely, "You know what I like about you? You're such a good listener."

    Variate and repeat, if necessary.
     
  20. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    She is of poor pedigree and never learned manners. No matter how hard you try to retrain her you will fail. Dump immediately.
     
  21. Socrates

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    Lose her. She will never stop being a chatterbox.

    Usually girls don't start talking too much until a little while into the relationship. If this broad already does it, then that is bad news.
     
  22. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Not if you use a ball gag....:noes:
     

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